If we go back to your basic point
(13-08-2015, 13:02)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]I hope no wg would be naive enough to to tell a prospective client that she worked alone,
It really does not matter what a girl tells a punter, some punters ask but the reality of the situation is that we may not tell you the truth, just what we feel you want to hear.
When I work from a hotel room, which is rare these days, I always work alone and it was not hard for a guy to realise that, as it would be hard to hide anybody, what was I meant to tell guys?
Was I being naive?
It is NOT "naive" for a girl to tell a punter that she works alone, there is no "one fix answer" to many situations. Just what you feel is right at the time. I am sure that goes for many punting situations as well.
Sarah x x x
(15-08-2015, 12:19)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ]If we go back to your basic point
(13-08-2015, 13:02)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]I hope no wg would be naive enough to to tell a prospective client that she worked alone,
It really does not matter what a girl tells a punter, some punters ask but the reality of the situation is that we may not tell you the truth, just what we feel you want to hear.
When I work from a hotel room, which is rare these days, I always work alone and it was not hard for a guy to realise that, as it would be hard to hide anybody, what was I meant to tell guys?
Was I being naive?
It is NOT "naive" for a girl to tell a punter that she works alone, there is no "one fix answer" to many situations. Just what you feel is right at the time. I am sure that goes for many punting situations as well.
Sarah x x x
Now I understand what your saying, thank you for clarifying.
OK so there's no way for a the person asking the question to really know if they got an honest answer but would it be wise for a wg to even think about seeing someone who asked the question, I would find it hard to believe that any normal person would not understand that the question has sinister overtones. If the presence of others or disturbance outside the room is genuinely a problem for you then I think there would be a better way of discussing it than simply asking "do you work alone".
There's another way to look at this, when you write on forums you sometimes get pms from other punters asking about women you've reviewed/mentioned the vast majority of these questions are completely innocent.......are her pictures accurate does she provide this service or that service........but if someone asked me does she work alone I'm not going to tell them am I and that would be the end of my contact with that person.
It's one thing for a wg to volunteer this information but an entirely different matter to have their name added to a list without their consent, if as a punter a peaceful atmosphere is important to you then discuss it sensibly with the wg because an opening line like "do you work alone" is not going to get you very far.
(15-08-2015, 14:21)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ] (15-08-2015, 12:19)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ]there is no "one fix answer" to many situations
Now I understand what your saying, thank you for clarifying.
But I don't think you did understand
(15-08-2015, 14:21)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]........but if someone asked me does she work alone I'm not going to tell them am I and that would be the end of my contact with that person.
You still seem to think that a guy asking if you work alone is sinister, again it can be depending on the situation, although he may be asking if the girl is able to offer a threesome with either a male or another female or when he arrives if he will get a choice of ladies.
Or he may just be another idiot asking questions for the sake of it, without thought or meaning.
Sarah x x x
(15-08-2015, 14:42)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ] (15-08-2015, 14:21)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ] (15-08-2015, 12:19)wife4rent Wrote: [ -> ]there is no "one fix answer" to many situations
Now I understand what your saying, thank you for clarifying.
But I don't think you did understand
(15-08-2015, 14:21)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]........but if someone asked me does she work alone I'm not going to tell them am I and that would be the end of my contact with that person.
You still seem to think that a guy asking if you work alone is sinister, again it can be depending on the situation, although he may be asking if the girl is able to offer a threesome with either a male or another female or when he arrives if he will get a choice of ladies.
Or he may just be another idiot asking questions for the sake of it, without thought or meaning.
Sarah x x x
Sarah I've actually taken this to a separate thread because I think it warrants it and it can be an ongoing discussion.
"DO YOU WORK ALONE ?" in the Service providers section.
On a lighter note THE BARRISTER IS BACK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and once again proving that he really is a legal Eagle by posting a link concerning the law, oh look I must be a Barrister to
http://www.theguardian.com/uk/2012/mar/2...l-sentence
In this contribution he advises punters that you can take legal action against a wg if she fails to provide a service you've paid for, just wondering how exactly you would go about proving you didn't get that service, I suppose if it had been a meet that had involved filming you could offer that as evidence, hands up all of you out there in punterland who'd be willing to do that, what no takers.
I suppose he's a little limited in the role he can play on the site now given that he can't punt anymore due to his imaginary diseases so desperate threads like this one are about all he can manage. But listen Mr Barrister I've thought of a way you can get involved again...........just tell them you went on a pilgrimage to Lourdes rubbed your cock all over a statue of the Virgin Mary and you were miraculously cured they may believe it, hell some of them believe your a Barrister it's worth a try. He doesn't get that much attention now as word has spread but I was surprised to see "M" from the Scottish board turn up here but I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt he may not know much about the Barrister. "M" is one of the sites more interesting contributors and well worth a read but read carefully as at first glance his words can appear misogynistic, he takes the most sensible and pragmatic view towards punting and views wgs purely as someone who he pays to provide a service in the same way as you would a plumber or electrician and judges them on the standard of that service. I don't agree with all he says but he's a thinker and clear in his own mind about why he punts, he has little time for the fluffy romantics or the swinging from the chandelier brigade who's reviews are often more about their own performance than that of the wg, it's a straightforward approach to punting........if he turns up clean and with a civil manner he expects to get the service he's paid for and a reasonably enthusiastic and encouraging attitude from the wg.
Now some real world advice about services or the lack of them, when you contact a wg and you have particular services in mind there is no point about being shy here, ask for what you want she can only say no, when you actually get to her place confirm the services again before parting with your cash. Now if you've agreed say OWO but once your naked it appears you've got some dubious looking spot on your cock or a weeks worth of smeg and the wg insists on a condom that would be her right but you would be entitled to ask for a small refund. If you agreed and payed for a service and it isn't provided without at least a reasonable explanation then do ask for some kind of refund at the end, it's certainly not unknown for that to be provided but I strongly advise against getting into any real confrontation over it. If you feel it was simply a rip-off let others know. Or of course you could take them to Court I'm sure the Barrister would represent you.
(16-08-2015, 13:13)Nova70 Wrote: [ -> ]On a lighter note THE BARRISTER IS BACK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and once again proving that he really is a legal Eagle by posting a link concerning the law, oh look I must be a Barrister to /uk/2012/mar/26/phoney-barrister-gets-jail-sentence
In this contribution he advises punters that you can take legal action against a wg if she fails to provide a service you've paid for, just wondering how exactly you would go about proving you didn't get that service, I suppose if it had been a meet that had involved filming you could offer that as evidence, hands up all of you out there in punterland who'd be willing to do that, what no takers.
I suppose he's a little limited in the role he can play on the site now given that he can't punt anymore due to his imaginary diseases so desperate threads like this one are about all he can manage. But listen Mr Barrister I've thought of a way you can get involved again...........just tell them you went on a pilgrimage to Lourdes rubbed your cock all over a statue of the Virgin Mary and you were miraculously cured they may believe it, hell some of them believe your a Barrister it's worth a try. He doesn't get that much attention now as word has spread but I was surprised to see "M" from the Scottish board turn up here but I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt he may not know much about the Barrister. "M" is one of the sites more interesting contributors and well worth a read but read carefully as at first glance his words can appear misogynistic, he takes the most sensible and pragmatic view towards punting and views wgs purely as someone who he pays to provide a service in the same way as you would a plumber or electrician and judges them on the standard of that service. I don't agree with all he says but he's a thinker and clear in his own mind about why he punts, he has little time for the fluffy romantics or the swinging from the chandelier brigade who's reviews are often more about their own performance than that of the wg, it's a straightforward approach to punting........if he turns up clean and with a civil manner he expects to get the service he's paid for and a reasonably enthusiastic and encouraging attitude from the wg.
Now some real world advice about services or the lack of them, when you contact a wg and you have particular services in mind there is no point about being shy here, ask for what you want she can only say no, when you actually get to her place confirm the services again before parting with your cash. Now if you've agreed say OWO but once your naked it appears you've got some dubious looking spot on your cock or a weeks worth of smeg and the wg insists on a condom that would be her right but you would be entitled to ask for a small refund. If you agreed and payed for a service and it isn't provided without at least a reasonable explanation then do ask for some kind of refund at the end, it's certainly not unknown for that to be provided but I strongly advise against getting into any real confrontation over it. If you feel it was simply a rip-off let others know. Or of course you could take them to Court I'm sure the Barrister would represent you.
Lol imagine standing in front in the Judge and Jury (full of old biddies) claiming you never hit OWO and you payed a whole £30 extra!.....I can see the headlines now.....lol
On an even lighter note, the dude I pissed off on UKP has now been banned for 'Soliciting'! LMFARO, the Admin really is a fool ?
Btw for those who are banned, just use a VPN that way your IP can't be traced, before there are any smart arse comments sorry if you already knew this
Why are you guys so obsessed with UKP?
I was a member and got banned, there was a good reason for me to be banned, they didn't like me, fair enough. Do I constantly go back and look at what they are posting ? No!
Why? Because I really do not care, most of them are meaningless idiots, the rest are just sheep.
Do you find many girls looking at the site? No!
So why are you punters so obsessed with what they are doing? Either join them or ignore them
Sarah x x x
PS If you are banned it means that you are not welcome, take the hint
Geez W4R no offence but you truly do come across as a rather angry individual......no we are not obsessed with UKP, where else would you suggest us 'ignorant' men look for reviews on WG's?.....Which.com ?.....I've looked they don't seem to have any reviews on Adult services provided?
Some constructive advice wouldn't go amiss
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