DO YOU WORK ALONE ?

[Nova70]

I don't mind being asked really. When I was an escort I would get asked quite regularly and I would tell them the truth. Since I made the change over to being a dominatrix I hardly ever get asked which is a bit random. Whether I'm alone or not has always depended on where I'm working that day and if my other half is in or not, so it changes regularly.

I have to admit that I certainly wouldn't be comfortable with being on a list of escorts that are alone. It's a little too convenient for the guys that are up to no good to target us.

Of course working in a job like this there are risks, but they're risks that you have to take into account and just try your best to minimise that risk. To tell a client that you are alone isn't naive, to think that there isn't a risk is naive.

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Well it appears I could be wrong here, perhaps it is a question that's more frequently asked than I realise and in all innocence, I just look at it from my point of view and it's just not something I need to know, but it's still not a question I would answer regarding a wg I'd seen.

[sarahxxx]

Well it appears I could be wrong here, perhaps it is a question that's more frequently asked than I realise

There are many questions that we get asked that you would not realise...

But it does not make a girl naive to tell a client that you work alone, as you suggested

I just look at it from my point of view

The penny drops at last, you seem to think that every punter is like you profess to be, not anything like the idiots WG's have contact from on a daily basis.

As I keep saying, there are many decent guys out there, but there are far more idiots. I woke up to 25 missed calls, have had 35+ guys call me today and many others who just text. I have had 3 no shows, that l expected not to turn up and another who is probably not on his way (he may surprise me). Other than that I have met some great guys.

A day in the life of....

Sarah x x x

[Pixie]

Pixie can I ask advice from you please? Re: real time dominatrix stuff, if thats ok can I PM you?

Of course you can my luv. Go for it. X

[Nova70]

Well it appears I could be wrong here, perhaps it is a question that's more frequently asked than I realise

There are many questions that we get asked that you would not realise...

But it does not make a girl naive to tell a client that you work alone, as you suggested

I just look at it from my point of view

The penny drops at last, you seem to think that every punter is like you profess to be, not anything like the idiots WG's have contact from on a daily basis.

As I keep saying, there are many decent guys out there, but there are far more idiots. I woke up to 25 missed calls, have had 35+ guys call me today and many others who just text. I have had 3 no shows, that l expected not to turn up and another who is probably not on his way (he may surprise me). Other than that I have met some great guys.

A day in the life of....

Sarah x x x

OK so I stand corrected neither yourself or Pixie find it a strange question and it wouldn't stop you from seeing someone, I still think if it mattered to me I would go about it in a different way not just blunder in with "are you alone", I may test the theory the next time I see someone new and if she blows me out it's your fault.

[Nova70]

Pixie can I ask advice from you please? Re: real time dominatrix stuff, if thats ok can I PM you?

How very polite asking permission to pm.

[Strawberryblonde]

Yes I've been asked this question, majority of the time anyone asking this tends not to follow through to a booking.

I do have an answer prepared, which is something like "Why do you ask?Do you want someone esle present?", or "Unless you cause me harm there will be no-one else involved".

It also depends on the background to the contact, if someone has been really hesitant, asking lots of questions, umming, ahhing, "Are you discrete?" with lot of other umms and ahhs, then I know it's fairly certain the person is not going to become a genuine client.

If someone starts to want to tell me how to arrange the booking, or say for outcall requests that I don't use a driver (whether I use one or not does not affect the client - apart from use of one can mean I arrive a lot fresher) then I'm not going to go any further. I have my ways of looking after myself which do not impinge on a client whatsoever, and I am not going to compromise them.

As for incalls I do find anyone asking these types of questions, especially when combined with other phrases, umming, ahhing, can you tell me about this fetish, tend not to turn out to be genuine clients.

[sarahxxx]

OK so I stand corrected neither yourself or Pixie find it a strange question and it wouldn't stop you from seeing someone, I still think if it mattered to me I would go about it in a different way not just blunder in with "are you alone", I may test the theory the next time I see someone new and if she blows me out it's your fault.

If she blows you out it is probably because she thinks your a nob, not because you asked her one question, it will be to do with the way you ask her the question and anything else you say in the conversation.

As it is your choice to ask her the pointless question, why are you looking to blame others?

Sarah x x x

[Nova70]

Yes I've been asked this question, majority of the time anyone asking this tends not to follow through to a booking.

I do have an answer prepared, which is something like "Why do you ask?Do you want someone esle present?", or "Unless you cause me harm there will be no-one else involved".

It also depends on the background to the contact, if someone has been really hesitant, asking lots of questions, umming, ahhing, "Are you discrete?" with lot of other umms and ahhs, then I know it's fairly certain the person is not going to become a genuine client.

If someone starts to want to tell me how to arrange the booking, or say for outcall requests that I don't use a driver (whether I use one or not does not affect the client - apart from use of one can mean I arrive a lot fresher) then I'm not going to go any further. I have my ways of looking after myself which do not impinge on a client whatsoever, and I am not going to compromise them.

As for incalls I do find anyone asking these types of questions, especially when combined with other phrases, umming, ahhing, can you tell me about this fetish, tend not to turn out to be genuine clients.

Well you seem a little more suspicious about the phrase but again like Sarah and Pixie you think it's more about how people say it than what they say.

[Nova70]

OK so I stand corrected neither yourself or Pixie find it a strange question and it wouldn't stop you from seeing someone, I still think if it mattered to me I would go about it in a different way not just blunder in with "are you alone", I may test the theory the next time I see someone new and if she blows me out it's your fault.

If she blows you out it is probably because she thinks your a nob, not because you asked her one question, it will be to do with the way you ask her the question and anything else you say in the conversation.

As it is your choice to ask her the pointless question, why are you looking to blame others?

Sarah x x x

Being a knob doesn't seem to have prevented a wg from accepting my booking, just so I know where I stand here Sarah where do knobs come on your table of male stupidity are we higher or lower in the pecking order than idiots ?.

[sarahxxx]

So are you saying you are a nob? / idiot?

I thought you made out you were better than that. I must of got it wrong.

However, the fact that you think your a nob / idiot, does not mean that she does if you did not give her reason to.

And even if she did, that would not man that she would not give you a booking. I usually take all booking requests, regardless of if the guy makes me think he is an idiot. most of the times they do not turn up so I do not get to meet them

Sarah x x x