28-03-2013, 16:56
(23-03-2013, 23:14)britishmilf Wrote: Girlfriends do not insist on making there Boyfriends where protection. But that debate is for another time.
I have just come out of a 3 year relationship and we used condoms, and i will continue to do so until i get married, which is never going to happen as im not the marrying kind! Never had a bf thats had a problem with using condoms, but then i only date sensible intelligent men
+1
Saying that girlfriends don't insist of their boyfriend wearing a condom is utterly ludicrous. I don't 'make' my boyfriend use a condom in the same way that he doesn't 'make' me go on the pill. Despite the annoyance of using condoms, my boyfriend has the intelligence and maturity to realise that it could be even more irritating for BOTH OF US if I got pregnant.
One of my absolute pet hates is a man who assumes that women should go on the pill rather than 'make them' use a condom. I've met so many young women who have their first ever boyfriend and after a week change their contraception to keep him happy, whilst experiencing a delightful array of side effects, including weight gain, never ending periods, unwanted facial hair (yes, this happened to a friend of mine), awful mood swings etc etc etc. Sometimes condoms are the best option for the man and the woman, be it a paid arrangement, a one night stand, or a committed relationship.