Falling for a client...

[Freddo]

Freddo, stop that right now!

Are you vying to be a Mod. It's a thankless task I'll have you know.

No, just fed up with him putting himself down. It's not good! We love him just the way he is, so why put himself down? It means our regard for him means nothing at all... which is fair enough, we're just an internet forum, but it is annoying when you've got to know someone over a while. It's either he wants people to contradict him (which I don't believe) or he has a ridiculously low self-image - which doesn't do him any good, and belittles us.

OK, I'll shut up now.

Never Shut up Ann please
I would hate to belittle anyone Ann, you are probably right I have a low self image Its always in the back of my mind that prople only look at your physical atributes and inside I am a fun loving with great sense of humour

[Nick Meanswell]

Never Shut up Ann please
I would hate to belittle anyone Ann, you are probably right I have a low self image Its always in the back of my mind that prople only look at your physical atributes and inside I am a fun loving with great sense of humour

Actually that's one of the many nice things about seeing escorts, and possibly the other way around dare I say it - because they are not judgmental about your appearance, that initial barrier of physical attraction, which can so often get in the way, is thrust aside, giving both sides the chance to demonstrate what they are really like under the skin - sometimes I imagine what lurks below may be even more unpleasant, but most often I imagine it gives the client the opportunity to show their real personality, and who they really want to be perceived as.

As I've said before the self-confidence I have gained as result of seeing escorts is amazing, I just feel so much more at ease in a social situation than I used to. I also think that once you have that inner confidence it reflects outwards, and in turn helps in the normal every day world.

[Freddo]

Good post that one Nick

[SassyAnn]

Freddo, stop that right now!

Are you vying to be a Mod. It's a thankless task I'll have you know.

No, just fed up with him putting himself down. It's not good! We love him just the way he is, so why put himself down? It means our regard for him means nothing at all... which is fair enough, we're just an internet forum, but it is annoying when you've got to know someone over a while. It's either he wants people to contradict him (which I don't believe) or he has a ridiculously low self-image - which doesn't do him any good, and belittles us.

OK, I'll shut up now.

Never Shut up Ann please
I would hate to belittle anyone Ann, you are probably right I have a low self image Its always in the back of my mind that prople only look at your physical atributes and inside I am a fun loving with great sense of humour

Let it all hang out Freddo!

[Freddo]

Freddo, stop that right now!

Are you vying to be a Mod. It's a thankless task I'll have you know.

No, just fed up with him putting himself down. It's not good! We love him just the way he is, so why put himself down? It means our regard for him means nothing at all... which is fair enough, we're just an internet forum, but it is annoying when you've got to know someone over a while. It's either he wants people to contradict him (which I don't believe) or he has a ridiculously low self-image - which doesn't do him any good, and belittles us.

OK, I'll shut up now.

Never Shut up Ann please
I would hate to belittle anyone Ann, you are probably right I have a low self image Its always in the back of my mind that prople only look at your physical atributes and inside I am a fun loving with great sense of humour

Let it all hang out Freddo!

i try but it gets a bit cold in winter and ends up ingrowing

[SassyAnn]

Hahaha - atta boy!

[icicle]

>Falling for a client...
>I guess this is an age old thing for us escorts but what happens when you meet >someone as a client but end up having feelings for him.

I'll tell you what I did - I married him! We live on different continents, but spend half our time together.

On the subject of meeting clients for a coffee beforehand I always do this. Several reasons..

1) I see only one person a day and live a fairly chilled life, so I just *can*. We only do that the first time unless we both feel like a coffee next time. Even looked at from a purely financial perspective, I think it is a good tradeoff as I get the more cautious guys and it is a great USP.

2) I know from long experience when a guy is excited he is likely to ring the wrong doorbell. Now I live in a liberal part of town but there is only so much I'm going to put the neighbors through.

3) My decorator caused the neighbourhood quite enough grief by hangng round outside getting drunk when he took a fancy to me so again I'm limiting the hassle caused to neighbours, with lost or refused guys hanging about.

4) When guys are going to Get Some all sense of direction leaves them. I point them at a landmark they have to be retarded to miss and meet them there. Note: this is not foolproof.

5) I do not think fast and would feel pressured during a phonecall to make a quick decision. I'm not new at this and I still need more time than most. I play to my strengths - more spare time.

6) Clients often tell me the reason they chose me was because they can meet me for a coffee and run away if they feel the need and this gives the encounter more the feel of a genuine date.

7) Any guy is going to feel awkward going into a strange house. I might have six huge pimps waiting to mug him. Once he meets me somewhere neutral I won't even consider taking him to my place until I can tell he feels safe.

So all in all it works for me. Sorry for necroing the thread.

[simo22]

just picked this up so excuse me if its already been said but this will only ever end in tears because you are both already in relationships, sorry.

[christie]

I fell for a client on the first meeting. We have been together 12 years now!

[Jeansman]

Lucy is right - this is a business. However, I did see a lady a few times in Nottingham who liked us to meet in a local coffee shop before starting the appt and as she was dressed as I like anyway, was always quite a thrill for me.
JM.