Falling for a client...

[LoucyLou]

I guess this is an age old thing for us escorts but what happens when you meet someone as a client but end up having feelings for him.

Take for example me...! I received an email from someone a while ago, he wanted to book me as an escort but wanted to meet up first for a coffee and chat, something I offer to do for potential new clients. We met up and he took me out for dinner and the day actually felt like a date!! We walked back to his car, sat down, started talking about arrangements for the next meet when before you knew it, my panties were off and we were doing things in a car park maybe we shouldn't have been doing!?!

We met the next day, went for a walk and discussed maybe becoming a "couple", although both of us are already in relationships. We also discussed working together as escorts, which we have done since.

BUT, I'm developing feelings now that maybe are reciprocated and I need advice on what to do! HELP!

[sophieofyork]

I never have fallen for a client. If I were to I think that I should not be able to see them again. However, that doesn't help your dilemma one little bit.

If it's meant to be then so be it, but you both need to consider your current partners, will you really leave them or just promise false hope to each other of the time when you can be together.

Don't be a stringer or stringee, relationships can be tricky whe there are more than two people involved. The heartache and pain associated is hard to bear at times and you need to be sure you're ready to fight against your own body day in day out if needed.

As it sounds like you're quite early in stages maybe you both just need to discuss whether it is a serious option or not.

It might be worth seeing why this guy is seeking an escort too. Is he unsatisfied in his current relationship or is it more that he wishes to stray from the nest in a rebellious fashion. Is he aware of what dating an escort entails?

So many questions, i guess my advice really is just think long and hard and then do it again and be 100% of yourself before doing anything.

[sarahxxx]

It might be worth seeing why this guy is seeking an escort too. Is he unsatisfied in his current relationship or is it more that he wishes to stray from the nest in a rebellious fashion. Is he aware of what dating an escort entails?

Sophie made some good points but the the most important is the above, if you get into a relationship with a punter are you happy should he wish to meet other girls / escorts?

The way you work, meeting clients before having an appointment seems very strange and naive, there are many guys out there who would get their kicks from just doing that and spending 30-60minutes with you just for the price of a coffee

The other question is why are you looking for something else outside of your current relationship?

Sarah

[britains porn stars]

Hi LoucyLou, a few year's back i clicked with a model i worked with it was great at the time but fizzled out but i understand where your coming from (pardon the pun lol). There's been a spark with a few model's in the past but i try not to act on it which is hard sometime's.

I guess this is an age old thing for us escorts but what happens when you meet someone as a client but end up having feelings for him.

Take for example me...! I received an email from someone a while ago, he wanted to book me as an escort but wanted to meet up first for a coffee and chat, something I offer to do for potential new clients. We met up and he took me out for dinner and the day actually felt like a date!! We walked back to his car, sat down, started talking about arrangements for the next meet when before you knew it, my panties were off and we were doing things in a car park maybe we shouldn't have been doing!?!

We met the next day, went for a walk and discussed maybe becoming a "couple", although both of us are already in relationships. We also discussed working together as escorts, which we have done since.

BUT, I'm developing feelings now that maybe are reciprocated and I need advice on what to do! HELP!

[English Kate]

I've got to admit, I would not offer to have a coffee prior to a booking. I mean a booking is paying for your time and there you are giving away a free service. It's the money that keeps me levelled, the problems arise when money is not part of the equation. I say... start charging him!

[Nick Meanswell]

I don't think LoucyLou is the only girl to do this. But I do think (as always) you're right Kate it's the money that's the controlling factor.

Actually I have just remembered I think there is a girl in Edinburgh who offers a drink in a safe neutral environment, before taking an overnight booking with someone she hasn't seen before, which is possibly quite a good idea. For me though it's much better to have a taster of an hour's fun. That's enough time to tell whether you could stand each other over an extended period.

Of course what you don't find out with either method is whether the guy snores - hint here for everyone - for that reason, (so I have been told) an overnight with me is NOT a good idea!

[Freddo]

There is a lady in my area who insists on meeting before hand to make sure you are both happy it is a fairly buisnesslike arrangement and if it goes well you go back for the booking

[DivineMissG]

I don't think LoucyLou is the only girl to do this. But I do think (as always) you're right Kate it's the money that's the controlling factor.

Actually I have just remembered I think there is a girl in Edinburgh who offers a drink in a safe neutral environment, before taking an overnight booking with someone she hasn't seen before, which is possibly quite a good idea. For me though it's much better to have a taster of an hour's fun. That's enough time to tell whether you could stand each other over an extended period.

Of course what you don't find out with either method is whether the guy snores - hint here for everyone - for that reason, (so I have been told) an overnight with me is NOT a good idea!

Haha!! I actually like snoring... I always have. As a kid it made me feel safe... I miss Kane's snoring - sometimes I have trouble sleeping without his steady, constant snore. Weird, I know!

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Business is business and money is money.

I never have and never will 'fall' for a client and for more than one reason and I wouldnt go down the coffee route either for the same reasons that Kate gives. If he wants to find out if he will get on with me then he can pay for my time to find out.

[sarahxxx]

There is a lady in my area who insists on meeting before hand to make sure you are both happy it is a fairly buisnesslike arrangement and if it goes well you go back for the booking

I totally agree with that idea, bar the fact that it would be for a 1 hour appointment, for both our sakes, after all, it is the punter paying the money and he should at least of spent some time with you in an intimate situation prior to spending X amount on an all night booking.

I also never do 2 hour bookings with somebody I have not met before.

Sarah