Found out my girlfriend is an escort...don't know what to do.

[Randomguy993]

You need to put on your big boy pants and stop complaining about hurt feelings. For the HUNDRETH time on this thread, we don't care.


You've got all the advice you're getting.

Move on with your life ffs.

So how come you are all about supporting each other and helping with a huge variety of topics, but hey...when its the other side of the coin you 'dont care' 

I am in a LTR with an escort, I thought maybe that would merit me some form of inclusion in a forum that revolves around assisting those in the escort and sex industry. Obviously it doesn't, you guys are cold and I think the industry has genuinely warped most WG's perceptions...I've already seen it in my own partner.

[CurvyBlondeOnCam]

If you need any support regarding this matter you can come see me on cam and I will happily help you out and give you some advice also you can show me your party trick with the cola , I haven't seen that done before and if you really want to I can show you how to be a good cuckold.

[English-Caroline]

Ok,,, I'm sure we are all happy to say GOOD BYE to you.

Perhaps one day you will understand that the big questions in life can all be answered from within. From quiet reflection and not from posting continually on a public forum. Decisions are always best made from a position of maturity.

As you've said "I'm done", then we are probably all wondering why you're still here.

Perhaps it is to quietly read through your posts and reflect on your responses.. I suggest you save your posts for a time of reflection.

Far from being "judgemental", I like , and indeed I help, people to succeed.
I wish you the ability to behave in a measured, kind, thoughtful and intelligent way.
I wish you well both in your personal relationships and in your interactions with others

And as you say you are leaving us....... well I wish you Goodbye.
Goodbye. xxxxx

[Randomguy993]

Ok,,, I'm sure we are all happy to say GOOD BYE to you.

Perhaps one day you will understand that the big questions in life can all be answered from within. From quiet reflection and not from posting continually on a public forum. Decisions are always best made from a position of maturity.

As you've said  "I'm done", then we are probably all wondering why you're still here.

Perhaps it is to quietly read through your posts and reflect on your responses.. I suggest you save your posts for a time of reflection.

Far from being "judgemental", I like , and indeed I help, people to succeed.
I wish you the ability to behave in a measured, kind, thoughtful and intelligent way.
I wish you well  both in your personal relationships and in your interactions with others

And as you say you are leaving us....... well I wish you Goodbye.
Goodbye. xxxxx

Looking back through my posts...Ok, sure, I was acting irrationally and aggressive at points, but as I said, thats only because others were attacking me and treating me like a loser for posting on here, they though I was this cam guy who did something with cola and were insulting me over it. It was a 2 sided argument, I'm not ashamed for lashing out and defending myself from an onslaught. I'm a perfectly decent guy, anybody who knows me would tell you I'm lovely and wouldn't harm a fly, but when I feel like I'm being ripped on and made fun of and accused of things that aren't true I'm not going to just let that happen. 

Now I am being who I really am. I guess thanks for the advice and I'll try and get some help with this issue because it is eating away at me and it hurts. 

Thanks. x

[Randomguy993]

If you need any support regarding this matter you can come see me on cam and I will happily help you out and give you some advice also you can show me your party trick with the cola , I haven't seen that done before and if you really want to I can show you how to be a good cuckold.

Is this a serious suggestion or just another one having a go at me? If you genuinely would be able to give me some tips and advice on how to succeed in a relationship with a WG then I would be so thankful, thats all I've wanted ffs. As for the cola trick...thats not me, they though I was this other guy because of my username and went on to insult and make fun of me for it, but I posted a picture of myself to prove I'm not that guy.

I honestly have absolutely no experience with the sex industry other than my gf is in it. I don't know ehat goes through guys heads when they are with her...but what goes through my head is that a pervert is treating her like an object and like she is a sl*t...which she is not. I want to know more and feel comfortable with it but how the hell will I ever do that if when I come here looking for help and advice everyone jsut shoots me down and tells me to go bother someone else.

[CurvyBlondeOnCam]

I am not starting I promise just being a little sarcastic  , my view is if I had been escorting behind my partners back and he found out he would leave me straight away and it would be my own fault for not being honest with him and asking if he would be okay with it. He would see it as cheating also. I personally think if you don't agree with what she does for a job and can't hack her sleeping with other men then don't be with her. No one would blame you for that. Perhaps ask her to do camming full time ? That's what I do , it maybe won't pay for designer bags and heels every week  (perhaps once in a while lol) Or rolling about in a bed full of £100 notes. But she wouldn't be sleeping with men. 

X

[Randomguy993]

I am not starting I promise just being a little sarcastic  , my view is if I had been escorting behind my partners back and he found out he would leave me straight away and it would be my own fault for not being honest with him and asking if he would be okay with it. He would see it as cheating also. I personally think if you don't agree with what she does for a job and can't hack her sleeping with other men then don't be with her. No one would blame you for that. Perhaps ask her to do camming full time ? That's what I do , it maybe won't pay for designer bags and heels every week  (perhaps once in a while lol) Or rolling about in a bed full of £100 notes. But she wouldn't be sleeping with men. 

X

That sounds cool, I would'nt care if she was camming, i'm totally fine with that, its a world away from ditching me every night to go out on the town with rich men and then sleeping with them...it makes me and our relationship feel so insignificant. But camming...they dont actually interact physically and its just on camera so I dont care at all. She would be fine with it im sure because shes spoken about it before. I'll check it out with her and we will see if its a possibility.

Thanks so much ?

[Randomguy993]

Btw. Can someone please tell me...without being aggressive or sarcastic...how likely it is that she does certain things. I mean, I am very concerned about guys finishing the job so to speak in her or on her...thats disgusting to me. She tells me she doesnt but I've heard most girls will if a client pays them a bit more.

[MsClara_Wilde]

Why would you not just ask her that yourself?

[Randomguy993]

Why would you not just ask her that yourself?

I have, she says she doesnt and that she is very clean and strict when she works...but based on the way shes lied and been decietful about her job many times I wonder