Found out my girlfriend is an escort...don't know what to do.

[MsClara_Wilde]

......Naaaaaaaah.

[Randomguy993]

......Naaaaaaaah.

??? Oh you think I'm a horrible person? Based on a few posts in an argument in which I'm being attacked because I have an issue with my lover being a prostitute?? Grow up.

[MsClara_Wilde]

I'm quite grown up. Any problems in my relationship are handled within said relationship with my partner between ourselves and not blasted all over a sex site forum. You know, handled like two adults.

[Randomguy993]

I'm quite grown up. Any problems in my relationship are handled within said relationship with my partner between ourselves and not blasted all over a sex site forum. You know, handled like two adults.

You think I havn't talked about all this with her already???? Of course I have.

I was hoping to hear from people who have a lot of experience in the industry who could tell me how the dynamics work in a relationship like this and give me some ideas on how I could handle it or see it in a certain way, maybe hear from someone who is working and in a relationship who could tell me how it works for them. Instead, I get a bunch of aggressive bullshit probably because you all feel defensive. You were all rude from the offset, and even when you were being somewhat polite it was in an arrogant and cocky way like I was some vermin polluting your precious forum with a real, genuine question. 

I think I know what it is... me posting about how I dislike what shes doing, maybe its seen as an attack on your industry and you are all defensive. As I said before...I have nothing against sex workers. However, finding out my girlfriend is one is a complete different ball game, of course I have an issue with it.

Are you seriously telling me, that if you came home one day to find your bf shagging another woman (as happened with me) and that he revealed he was a hooker and was then going out every evening to spend time with and pleasure other women, lied to you constantly and was screwing other women in your bed whenever you went out..are you saying you would be completely cool with that?? Because hey..its just his job right??

[MsClara_Wilde]

No I wouldn't be cool with it and would probably leave them.

The exact same advice Ana gave you from the GET GO but you had to persist looking reassurance on your own decisions, THAT'S when you started to grate people. We gave you advice. We aren't here to play therapists.

[Randomguy993]

No I wouldn't be cool with it and would probably leave them.

The exact same advice Ana gave you from the GET GO but you had to persist looking reassurance on your own decisions, THAT'S when you started to grate people. We gave you advice. We aren't here to play therapists.

So then why are you guys treating me like a horrible person for 'not respecting ber body autonomy'. I even agreed with Ana in the beginning at her suggestion that I should leave her. After that, others were suggesting I was on here for other reasons and Ana labelled me as this fucking cam freak and thats when it got out of hand. Ive been treated like a complete asshole because and I quote 'im a misogynistic man' who doesnt respect 'the way she chooses to make her money'. Thats bullshit. Hence the reason I've been calling you all deluded. Because I feel like ive been attacked for having a problem with what she is doing and the way she has done it. I've put so much into this relationship, bent over backwards for her and given her all the love I can, only to find out the way I explained and its been fucking hard but I am trying to stand by her because she is worth so much to me. If that makes me an asshole, then that is deluded.

[MsClara_Wilde]

I never said anything about her body or how you treated it.

You riled me personally because Ana was very direct with you and instead you insulted her by calling her deluded etc. First page.

[Randomguy993]

I never said anything about her body or how you treated it.

You riled me personally because Ana was very direct with you and instead you insulted her by calling her deluded etc. First page.

Maybe thats because she was the one speaking to me in an arrogant, rude way and she was the one who was saying what I quoted...

[MsClara_Wilde]

You need to put on your big boy pants and stop complaining about hurt feelings. For the HUNDRETH time on this thread, we don't care.


You've got all the advice you're getting.

Move on with your life ffs.

[Randomguy993]

I never said anything about her body or how you treated it.

You riled me personally because Ana was very direct with you and instead you insulted her by calling her deluded etc. First page.

Anyway, this thread has just got so out of hand. I feel like I came here with a reasonable, genuine request and instead was treated like a complete cunt. Of course I was gonna get defensive. I'll put my hands up and apologise if I offended anyone who didnt deserve it but take a look back through the thread with neutral eyes and you will see what I am talking about. Of course im gonna be the enemy because I am the 'misogynistic man' and you all band together.

Sorry for my side in the argument, i hope others are sorry for theirs. I'm backing out now because I obviously came to the wrong place. I'll try to leave without having the perception tha most sex workers are nasty judgemental people but it certainly comes across that way. Idk...I'm done.