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The forum is a platform where all sex workers should feel comfortable chatting, god knows our work is crazy! I for one have only just started posting more here and really enjoy chatting amongst you as well as feeling comfortable chatting about clients etc.
None of us stated we engage in that sort of client session so I really don't understand where the tantrums are coming from.
Taboo is a word used by almost everyone here. Last time I checked it has nothing to do with me encouraging a clown to kidnap a child.
And I'd like to think as a regular poster who I initially thought was lovely CG, you should KNOW that everyone on here has the moral compass to not expose or engage in anything along those lines.
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The paedophile issue is seperate in my mind to other taboo subjects, it is something very dangerous that I don't believe any of us should encourage. I recently posted in the private forum so I will reiterate here:
"Funny you should say that...
I was at an open evening at a university here a few weeks back and one of the key speakers was a retired criminal profiler from the FBI. He was saying something very similar, that paedophiles have a "behavioural arc" where their behaviour can almost be mapped out it is that predictable, how it escalates and what to look out for. A majority start off by being exposed to inappropriate age-gap situations themselves as youngsters, either being abuse victims or raised in a household where it was no discouraged or seen as particularly awful. That then develops into what he called the "hoarder/hermit" stage where they begin to hoard inappropriate images, website links, videos, or worse, make their own material. That stage coincides with the hermit stage where they become withdrawn and isolated because irrelevant of that they say, they ARE aware that it is wrong and either through guilt or embarrassment can become somewhat of a loner. That is then followed by the "active stage" where they either seek out victims OR seek to live out their fantasies by using phone sex, chatrooms and so on. It was all far more convoluted than that, and I have probably missed bits. But the bottom line is, by the time they are in your cam room or calling your phone, it has been an obsession/desire for most likely a pretty long time, and it is coming to it's peak"
Also, anything to do with animals is a huge no. But as for the rest? That's up to the woman and what she classes as taboo. As previously stated, karma...
CG - I've known you here a long time, if I didn't know better I wouldn't believe it was you posting that. You're better than that... I'm surprised you've said what you have but I'm not going to hold it against you. As hurt and even correct as you may be, I think you may need to throw an apology out here babe. X
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CG I don't think you comprehend that taboo can mean different things to different people. I've had plenty of visitors express all sorts of desires. In their minds, having gay thoughts, or being attracted to their much older neighbour is taboo.
I'm not sure exactly how you think taboo = pedophilia, and that you think its okay to brand anyone who doesn't think that people with desires outwith your seemingly narrow worldview as subhuman.
You've obviously got some baggage, and given your apparent history I'm not sure this is the right industry for you. Stop using your past as a branch to beat others with, or a shield to threaten others in this thread.
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(29-03-2017, 20:48)xXxMEFxXx Wrote: The paedophile issue is seperate in my mind to other taboo subjects, it is something very dangerous that I don't believe any of us should encourage. I recently posted in the private forum so I will reiterate here:
"Funny you should say that...
I was at an open evening at a university here a few weeks back and one of the key speakers was a retired criminal profiler from the FBI. He was saying something very similar, that paedophiles have a "behavioural arc" where their behaviour can almost be mapped out it is that predictable, how it escalates and what to look out for. A majority start off by being exposed to inappropriate age-gap situations themselves as youngsters, either being abuse victims or raised in a household where it was no discouraged or seen as particularly awful. That then develops into what he called the "hoarder/hermit" stage where they begin to hoard inappropriate images, website links, videos, or worse, make their own material. That stage coincides with the hermit stage where they become withdrawn and isolated because irrelevant of that they say, they ARE aware that it is wrong and either through guilt or embarrassment can become somewhat of a loner. That is then followed by the "active stage" where they either seek out victims OR seek to live out their fantasies by using phone sex, chatrooms and so on. It was all far more convoluted than that, and I have probably missed bits. But the bottom line is, by the time they are in your cam room or calling your phone, it has been an obsession/desire for most likely a pretty long time, and it is coming to it's peak"
Also, anything to do with animals is a huge no. But as for the rest? That's up to the woman and what she classes as taboo. As previously stated, karma...
CG - I've known you here a long time, if I didn't know better I wouldn't believe it was you posting that. You're better than that... I'm surprised you've said what you have but I'm not going to hold it against you. As hurt and even correct as you may be, I think you may need to throw an apology out here babe. X EXTREME,
4CFULL rough play ( rape ) the list goes on and on , none of you know me , and BTW I have NEVER played the victim , this post was initially about gals breaking the rules and it escalated , my beef with Jessie was saying that she believed webcam/phone about such taboo topics would hopefully pacify and calm such people , I was saying who are we to know that such a alien ( there not normal human beings in my personal opinion ) wouldn't act on certain acts in reality , to engage in a topic with someone whom wants such a thing should really look deep into their psyche , I just don't get it , and to those who have replied I meant no offence , I only meant that as a survivor such topics to me are NOT TOLERATED , neither should there be , there are too many sick , twisted predators out there as it is why in the hell encourage them, I wont apologise
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And no one is disagreeing with you, lol.
There are a lot of girls, not just Jessie, who lean towards thinking that people who do deal with the 'aliens' as you call them will prevent them from doing any harm in real life. Everyone has their own way of thinking, that's the beauty of life, you don't have to socialise with people whose way of thinking offends you.
However, you did in a roundabout way make an implication of threat to Jessie which I think was really unneeded. And the fact you can't talk civilly about this certain topic to other people then perhaps it's not a conversation you should engage in.
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(29-03-2017, 21:37)MsClara_Wilde Wrote: And no one is disagreeing with you, lol.
There are a lot of girls, not just Jessie, who lean towards thinking that people who do deal with the 'aliens' as you call them will prevent them from doing any harm in real life. Everyone has their own way of thinking, that's the beauty of life, you don't have to socialise with people whose way of thinking offends you.
However, you did in a roundabout way make an implication of threat to Jessie which I think was really unneeded. And the fact you can't talk civilly about this certain topic to other people then perhaps it's not a conversation you should engage in.
BPD BPD BPD BPD BPD TAKING MY TIME ON MY RIDE , I KNOW ITS HARD SOMETIMES , I THINK ABOUT THE END TO MUCH , BUTS IT FINE TO FANTASIE ABOUT THE END , I'M FALLING , BPD , BPD , MAYBE I ACT CRAZY , BYE ALL LATERS , OH , OH . I AM TAKING A BREAK FROM AW , BECAUSE ITS SO TOXIC , SO TOXIC TO MY SOUL , MY PYSHE , BUT HEY ITS GREAT TO FANTAZIE , BUT HEY I WOULD WANK FOR YOU AND YOU AND YOU AND HEY I WOULD COME ONLINE FOR YOU,,,,,,OH OH , I'M FALLING FOR THIS TOXIC RIDE , TAKING MY TIME , I HAVE BEEN THINKING TOO MUCH, HELP ME , TOO MUCH , I HAVE BECOME A MOODY , TOXIC , JUDMENTAL BITCH SO I AM TAKING MY TIME.......................................BPD , LOL.
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(29-03-2017, 21:29)country-gal Wrote: (29-03-2017, 20:48)xXxMEFxXx Wrote: The paedophile issue is seperate in my mind to other taboo subjects, it is something very dangerous that I don't believe any of us should encourage. I recently posted in the private forum so I will reiterate here:
"Funny you should say that...
I was at an open evening at a university here a few weeks back and one of the key speakers was a retired criminal profiler from the FBI. He was saying something very similar, that paedophiles have a "behavioural arc" where their behaviour can almost be mapped out it is that predictable, how it escalates and what to look out for. A majority start off by being exposed to inappropriate age-gap situations themselves as youngsters, either being abuse victims or raised in a household where it was no discouraged or seen as particularly awful. That then develops into what he called the "hoarder/hermit" stage where they begin to hoard inappropriate images, website links, videos, or worse, make their own material. That stage coincides with the hermit stage where they become withdrawn and isolated because irrelevant of that they say, they ARE aware that it is wrong and either through guilt or embarrassment can become somewhat of a loner. That is then followed by the "active stage" where they either seek out victims OR seek to live out their fantasies by using phone sex, chatrooms and so on. It was all far more convoluted than that, and I have probably missed bits. But the bottom line is, by the time they are in your cam room or calling your phone, it has been an obsession/desire for most likely a pretty long time, and it is coming to it's peak"
Also, anything to do with animals is a huge no. But as for the rest? That's up to the woman and what she classes as taboo. As previously stated, karma...
CG - I've known you here a long time, if I didn't know better I wouldn't believe it was you posting that. You're better than that... I'm surprised you've said what you have but I'm not going to hold it against you. As hurt and even correct as you may be, I think you may need to throw an apology out here babe. X EXTREME,
4CFULL rough play ( rape ) the list goes on and on , none of you know me , and BTW I have NEVER played the victim , this post was initially about gals breaking the rules and it escalated , my beef with Jessie was saying that she believed webcam/phone about such taboo topics would hopefully pacify and calm such people , I was saying who are we to know that such a alien ( there not normal human beings in my personal opinion ) wouldn't act on certain acts in reality , to engage in a topic with someone whom wants such a thing should really look deep into their psyche , I just don't get it , and to those who have replied I meant no offence , I only meant that as a survivor such topics to me are NOT TOLERATED , neither should there be , there are too many sick , twisted predators out there as it is why in the hell encourage them, I wont apologise
That is your right to have these opinions and I respect them. However it is the way you have expressed them in an aggressive manner that caused offence to me. You have made assumptions on what other ladies think and do which is unfair and insulting. I don't think anyone here would actively encourage these types of people, although as you say some ladies on AW do and I agree it isn't right.
We're all on the same side and shouldn't be attacking each other x
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(29-03-2017, 21:46)country-gal Wrote: (29-03-2017, 21:37)MsClara_Wilde Wrote: And no one is disagreeing with you, lol.
There are a lot of girls, not just Jessie, who lean towards thinking that people who do deal with the 'aliens' as you call them will prevent them from doing any harm in real life. Everyone has their own way of thinking, that's the beauty of life, you don't have to socialise with people whose way of thinking offends you.
However, you did in a roundabout way make an implication of threat to Jessie which I think was really unneeded. And the fact you can't talk civilly about this certain topic to other people then perhaps it's not a conversation you should engage in.
BPD BPD BPD BPD BPD TAKING MY TIME ON MY RIDE , I KNOW ITS HARD SOMETIMES , I THINK ABOUT THE END TO MUCH , BUTS IT FINE TO FANTASIE ABOUT THE END , I'M FALLING , BPD , BPD , MAYBE I ACT CRAZY , BYE ALL LATERS , OH , OH . I AM TAKING A BREAK FROM AW , BECAUSE ITS SO TOXIC , SO TOXIC TO MY SOUL , MY PYSHE , BUT HEY ITS GREAT TO FANTAZIE , BUT HEY I WOULD WANK FOR YOU AND YOU AND YOU AND HEY I WOULD COME ONLINE FOR YOU,,,,,,OH OH , I'M FALLING FOR THIS TOXIC RIDE , TAKING MY TIME , I HAVE BEEN THINKING TOO MUCH, HELP ME , TOO MUCH , I HAVE BECOME A MOODY , TOXIC , JUDMENTAL BITCH SO I AM TAKING MY TIME.......................................BPD , LOL.
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BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder? Fantasise about the end?
I ask this with genuine sincerity and concern.... Are you OK?
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Seriously, CG, are you alright?
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(29-03-2017, 22:23)xXxMEFxXx Wrote: Seriously, CG, are you alright?
That last post is quite worrying
I hope she is ok.
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