Let's make money together

[Strawberryblonde]

I like the photo of the "cock men envy and women want".

[curlytots]

Shortened version of the initial post:

'Can I have a free shag please?'

LOL

[BBWUK]

Shortened version of the initial post:

'Can I have a free shag please?'

LOL

Haha this made me laugh!

[Strawberryblonde]

I declined his kind offer, I'm sure you can find plenty of ladies closer to Bristol than I am Richy.

[HornyHeidiBush]

Hi Richy,

you recently emailed me on adultwork, and I would like to give you a few words of advice in response.

You started the email by stating 'I saw you profile and thought wow!' I find this quite extraordinary, because you spent the rest of the emailing saying things that showed you hadn't looked at my profile very carefully at all.

You asked me if I was interested in shared content, even though I explicitly state on my profile that I have no interest in shared content. You then tried to coerce me into shagging you, for free, because it will apparently help boost my escorting. But I don't escort either, something which is also explicitly stated on my profile.

There are some lovely and genuine male performers out there, but this is all too reminiscent of all the other desperate and ignorant emails I've received from men, who assume that I'll shag them for nothing. If you want people to take you seriously, have the courtesy to read people's profiles before you email them. And don't assume that women who are sex workers are easy, because, by definition, the opposite is usually true!

Heidi

[Trinity-Belle]

* Browse *
* View Profile *
* Click Here To Send Email *
* Copy *
* Paste *
* Send *
... and then at the other end...

* Open Message *
* Roll Eyes *
* Delete *

[Trinity-Belle]

Out of interest... when you girls get these kinds of cut'n'paste touting messages, do you just delete them or do you press the "Report Spam" button?

I usually just delete them, but I think I am going to start reporting them for spam... after all, we are not allowed to tout for business by spamming potential clients, so I don't see why these guys should be allowed to get away with it....

[Ana_X]

Depending on the email I'll do either Trinity. Most of the time I'll copy and paste it over to a couple of my girlfriends to laugh over first, then delete it. If the email is offering me paid work from obscure company in obscure town for obscure activity I'll report it as spam. That kind of thing worries me that the younger (or more naive) SPs might think it's a fame and fortune break through moment then end up in some shady situation miles from home.

Predators come in all guises on adult websites and it's good to be wary of such generous offers.

[sarahxxx]

There are some lovely and genuine male performers out there, but this is all too reminiscent of all the other desperate and ignorant emails I've received from men, who assume that I'll shag them for nothing. If you want people to take you seriously, have the courtesy to read people's profiles before you email them. And don't assume that women who are sex workers are easy, because, by definition, the opposite is usually true!

If I get emails that have read my profile properly and are respectful in what they are asking then I do not mind. A good rule in business is to be offering the party you approach a better deal than you are getting, after all, it is you that are contacting them.

But as Heidi points out, most of them do not bother and just contact everybody they can without thought and the same message like one message fits all. They then wonder why they get very poor response for their effort.

Put some thought into your approach and you may get a far better response for far less effort, those that you do not get a response from may have a little respect for you and even consider you in future.

I do not report them, I simply block them from contacting me again.

Sarah x x x

[xKatieBabyx]

" the younger (or more naive) SPs might think it's a fame and fortune break through moment then end up in some shady situation miles from home.

Predators come in all guises on adult websites and it's good to be wary of such generous offers."

THIS ^^

Anyone getting these kind of messages needs to report them not just ignore or block, otherwise they keep on till some idiot girl actually meets up with them.