Guys really adamant about feedback NOT being left

[Classy_Katy]

I'm beginning to feel the same way about feedback, with respect to not bothering unless they do because so many don't, even if they really did enjoy it...and it's strange how the time for leaving feedback for bookings is so short but for directcam ages...and when you get feedback for a show that happened quiet a while ago the moment is passed and the feedback doesn't really reflect the obvious enjoyment of the time.

[kinkydirtybitch]

I trust that the guys leave feedback only when they really feel they have had an outstanding show which they usually do IMHO

I ALWAYS leave feedback after a show & if they occasionally request no feedback then it's easy to simply dismiss/delete any existence of their visit.

Everyone's a winner!

[Scotty_Hottie]

I have and have had various guys who don't leave feedback but who return again and again. Whether it's laziness or ignorance or being discrete, I'll take them coming back to me over them leaving me feedback. I won't mention it or hassle them about it.

[Classy_Katy]

I have and have had various guys who don't leave feedback but who return again and again. Whether it's laziness or ignorance or being discrete, I'll take them coming back to me over them leaving me feedback. I won't mention it or hassle them about it.

That's the same for me too...

I've also had guys email me to say how much they enjoyed the session but not left feedback on the system.

[F3rm4t]

Posting on here for the first time in the middle of an existing thread seems a little strange to me, but the subject is appropriate I think...

As someone who does sometimes leave feedback for various things my view is that it is a point of discretion. I don't like to leave feedback unless expressly asked to because I feel that makes whatever it was a little more public. The reverse is also true, I have never really had an issue over my feedback, but I prefer it not be left in the main.

As a service provider the public bit is usually a good thing, but as a 'guy' (see OP) that makes it a little less personal and seems to detract from the experience a little. I am not falling into the trap of thinking it is any more than a commercial arrangement but good escorts make things feel more personal than that; airing the laundry in public takes that away a little.

The ridiculous part is that I am obviously very grateful to those who have left feedback because it allows me to get an understanding of the people I might interact with.

On a side note, I have spoken to various cammers without it being a show really. It seems a little odd leaving feedback that says we had a nice chat :-)

Hopefully that makes sense to someone?

Anyway the slightly off topic question I wanted to ask was about feedback and this is a good example of why feedback is not always a good thing.... a service provider has quite innocently left feedback for me with a name in it. Is there anyway that can be removed or edited? I don't particularly want to remove my profile as I have become attached to bits of it.

Thanks

[Classy_Katy]

Hi F3rm4t, that is indiscreet to include a name...you could try contacting AW but they do say feedback can't be changed. It would be a shame to delete your profile, many guys give fake names anyway so people may not believe that is your real name.

I've very rarely had a guy who only wanted to chat with me on cam and I get into action fairly quickly since that's what the majority want and are paying for...I have seen though "nice chat" as feedback and I don't see a problem with it if all they did was chat.

I'm usually discreet in the feedback I give, so it's not making public something that happened in private.

[F3rm4t]

I've very rarely had a guy who only wanted to chat with me on cam and I get into action fairly quickly since that's what the majority want and are paying for...

Yes, I know that is not commonplace, but it has just happens like that sometimes. Funnily enough I did once have an escort who spent a whole hour drinking tea and telling me about the ghost of her dead grandmother.... maybe it's just me :-)

I'm usually discreet in the feedback I give, so it's not making public something that happened in private.

Sorry I was not trying to describe indiscreet feedback as such. What I was trying to convey was that any feedback, even if it just says "Lovely guy, fun time", puts the whole encounter in the public arena and therefore detracts a little from its perceived intimacy. Does that make any sense?

[kinkydirtybitch]

Anyway the slightly off topic question I wanted to ask was about feedback

You absolutely should contact AdultWork who will remove this inappropriate feedback immediately. This information is not permitted in feedback

[Classy_Katy]

Yes it does...thanks for clarifying for me.

I'm interested in how webcam shows can turn out to be just chat...I can see girls in group using the live thumbnails just sitting there chatting and I do wonder how they get away with it! Maybe it's easier for the girl to just sit and chat if she isn't using audio. Or perhaps I just attract the guys who only want me to get my clothes off!

[kinkydirtybitch]

Yes it does...thanks for clarifying for me.

I'm interested in how webcam shows can turn out to be just chat...I can see girls in group using the live thumbnails just sitting there chatting and I do wonder how they get away with it! Maybe it's easier for the girl to just sit and chat if she isn't using audio. Or perhaps I just attract the guys who only want me to get my clothes off!

Sometimes guys want more than a flash of tits & fancy a bit of social intercourse instead! Some girls just like to stall & others don't swing from the chandeliers!