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Sometimes I get a total feeling of euphoria during and after a booking and I can't help but express my happiness to the client. I really do feel like the cat that got the cream at times.

As a client, do you find this annoying, seeing as you just paid or does it make you feel good to know that the Escort has really enjoyed having some fun with you?

I do sometimes get told that I should have paid them and most of the time I think they are joking, but sometimes... Does it bother you if she has too much fun?

following kate's thread on declining a booking

guys did have u ever had to cut a booking short if it wasnt what u thought

girls have u ended a booking

my reasons have been

the minute they walk in it's your doing this without even a hello
one's who have the attitude that escorts are disgusting dirty things
bugging me constantly for services not offered

I remember once during a discussion at a swinging club talking to a lady I had never met before. She was married and at the club with a buddy, without her husband knowing she was there.

Another lady in the lounge had told us her day job was being a Teacher. At this point the lady who was cheating on her husband said under her breath, 'I wouldn't want you Teaching my children!'. Most of us were horrified to hear her say this and questioned her on what she had said.

It didn't matter what we said, she was adament that someone who was swinging, should not work with children. Personally I thought she was far worse for seeing other guys behind her husbands back, but that is just my opinion.

My question is... Where do you cross the line?

Many people think the same way as she does and would soon condemn anyone who worked with children for being sexually promiscous, but does it really have an impact on their work and how good they are at it?

What do you think?

Now and again I find myself declining a booking. Usually I am using my gut instinct or they have said something that has made me feel that we would not be compatible.

Ladies, what kind of things might lead you to decline a booking, having never met the person before.

Guys, if you have ever had a booking declined, why do you think it was?

Some of the reasons I have declined have been:

They obviously hadn't read my profile at all.
Asking stupid questions,
Trying to get off on one during the conversation
Referring to other ladies all the time during the intro conversation
Asking for services I do not offer
Making too many calls despite being asked to stop at certain times of day.
Being rude
Not talking to me like I am a human.
Being too specific about what they want, ie clothing, toys etc.
Wanting to take drugs during the booking
Trying to haggle my rates down

For most of us there is a lot of deception and secrecy involved in either being an Escort or seeing an Escort.

How do you deal with the deception? Do you find it easy or hard?

Personally I don't know how I would cope with it if I didn't have one or two friends I could talk to about it and if I am honest, forums really help, as I can talk freely about my experiences with people who relate.

councils not putting up notices that a road is closed

Its been reported in the press that claims of 24 hour security for the two daughters of Prince Andrew and Sarah, are going to be reduced, exactly why do they think they need that sort of security, when funds for it, are coming from the public purse, and the funding for some hospitals are being reduced, front line services for the needy are stopped, and many public secter workers are facing unemployment due to cut backs, surely the fact we have been paying for 24 hour security for some folk is stupid, when they are not at any risk greater than you and I.

With more than a few Scots on here, what is the view of the scots getting home rule.

At the local council elections, more votes were cast for the other two main parties, but there was a rise in SNP votes, with Alex Salmon saying that Home rule for Scotland is getting nearer.

No matter oif the Scots were all to vote for it, it would have to be a majority vote with all of England, Wales, and Northend Ireland having a say, as it would break up the Union.

This country is small enough, would it benefit either of the union members if the Scots were to get home rule.

over the last few daysi've noticed my boobs are really sore to touch. and i'm not sure if i'm imagining it or not but i seem to have a better cleavage (impressive for a 32B!!)

any other ladies ever had this sort of problem and what did you do?? it's just a nuisance more than anything else!!

now, when i go to see a client i like to dress as i would for work or socialising, ensuring i have something more appropriate underneath... i think if i'm wearing casual clothes i draw less attention and then i'm more relaxed to meet my client. I find most gentlemen request or appreciate this for discretional reasons.

i did however have a request for a gent to pick me up at tesco's in a latex dress and thigh high boots... not quite so inconspicuous. (i declined this offer for this very reason)

what is the general consensus on dressing to impress and how far would you go to meet a client's request??