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Deception - English Kate - 10-05-2011
For most of us there is a lot of deception and secrecy involved in either being an Escort or seeing an Escort.
How do you deal with the deception? Do you find it easy or hard?
Personally I don't know how I would cope with it if I didn't have one or two friends I could talk to about it and if I am honest, forums really help, as I can talk freely about my experiences with people who relate.
RE: Deception - abcdef - 10-05-2011
the forums really help, told my sister but she is so stuck up & prudish that i cant chat to her about it
RE: Deception - Tom30 - 10-05-2011
At home, id never ever tell my parents or sister or anyone, i know what they are like, even paying £5 for sex would be seen as a total waste of money.
At work with my closest work mates, i keep it to an extreme minimul. They keep telling me of their stories and socially offering me advice on all things sex and things, while im there thinking god if only you knew some of the things ive done/seen... would pale their faces.
RE: Deception - Emily of Halifax - 10-05-2011
The only other person I chat about what I do with apart from on forums and with clients is my other half.
I do sometimes find it quite straining keeping what I do a secret my family up north think I work in a local shop but people down here think I work in a petrol station in Manchester you have to have a good memory to keep the pretence up.
RE: Deception - English Kate - 11-05-2011
(10-05-2011, 16:39)Emily of Halifax Wrote: The only other person I chat about what I do with apart from on forums and with clients is my other half.
I do sometimes find it quite straining keeping what I do a secret my family up north think I work in a local shop but people down here think I work in a petrol station in Manchester you have to have a good memory to keep the pretence up.
I've got a crap memory
RE: Deception - jayzee77 - 11-05-2011
Only my hubby and a close friend who I know I can trust knows, I would never tell family.
Told a couple of friends when I started out on a phone chat service, but they were a bit shocked.
RE: Deception - mrtomthumb - 14-05-2011
Hi, I would like to say I have meet a few girls who have partners, it's a question I always ask, as it kinda turns me on, the thought of another guys girlfriend.
Most say that their partners don't know, usually because they live abroad. This I find really hot. I like that the girl has secrets from her partner.
Some say thier partner knows, so I always ask, if they would feel comfitable if the partner was seeing girls. Nearly all would not.
Finally, there was one lady in west london, who after a couple of hotel visits, let meet her in her home, when her boyfriend would leave for work!!! We used to do it standing up in the front bedroom window, so she could keep any out in case he returned.
As for the guilt, I guess, like me, its something you learn to either accept or not.
FYI, they were all really wonderful girls and great company....
what would I do if my partner was an escort?? Not sure, but sometimes like the thought of having a partner who was.
RE: Deception - English Kate - 14-05-2011
Welcome to the forum Tom. Interesting post.
RE: Deception - sophieofyork - 14-05-2011
i told a few of my closest friends. One being a man who didn't get it at all and really doesn't encourage it. I'd never tell my family- although i'm not sure it would be a huge problem!!
it makes me laugh when they talk about escorts in the office- a phrase most often heard is 'it's not the most glamorous job is it' to which i laugh in my head and think if only you knew!!!
RE: Deception - zoekent - 20-05-2011
Always a hard one to get balance right. always maintained being an escort is a lonely job . Zoe and Me are very different ,way we dress way we have our hair etc .Zoe has inner circle of close friends ,couple of them clients . Me i have fewer friends who have no idea what i do .