AW Pending Payments

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That's sad Sophia I hope something comes along. Have you read any of my post regarding Payoneer? It may be worth giving them or Paxum or Paytoo a go. You really don't know when AW will be sorting this. It's not easy but sometimes instead of having a bunch of people enabling you and giving you sympathy you may actually need a boot up the backside to get you on track and in the right direction.

Hopefully something will give and AW will get it sorted but I think at this stage its best not to rest on your laurels. Atleast if you begin with sorting something you know you're heading in the right direction and not just waiting and worried. Other than that I am not sure if you can get a crisis loan but it may be worth looking into. Maybe speak to the CAB.


Would love to know where the ridicule is though Helena Bentley? I struggle to see it? I think giving harsh criticism is far more helpful than just giving someone a virtual hug. Because it doesn't need to be like this for them, or at least it didn't if people didn't shut me down the first time round. I haven't ridiculed anyone, I have merely stated that blaming AW is not going to help and a boycott certainly wont (ok maybe I did ridicule that but it is ridiculous). People on here are worried and scared and are putting their focus in the wrong areas. I am snapping them out of this cycle and getting them to do something at least. I am not going to sit back and watch people wind themselves up stupid when there are perfectly easy ways out of it.

If you look past your own nose upon your little high horse you may actually see that it's more helpful to speak up and say something than to just sit and say what you think will get you the most "thanks"

Del2.... your "pull your finger out of your arse" (those were your words) style of life coaching simply isn't helpful or indeed kind.

Some of your advice has merit (Payoneer, Paxum, Paytoo), but your style of delivery lacks empathy and understanding.
That is where people are having issue with you.

I am very fortunate as I'm in a much better situation that most people tonight. My good fortune does not stop me thinking how others may feel.  Perhaps you could consider exercising the same depth of thought.