Clients walking out?

[androidqueen]

Hey all!

I'm just wondering if any of you had clients walk out on you before?

Now let me start by saying that I have been escorting for five years and I have had some people walk out on me before, but each time its quite devastating.

Now, I am by no means ugly, infact I've been told i'm at least above average with my appearance and 99% of the time ( I have a very big clientele) all my services go as planned, but I will get the odd bugger whom would come into the flat, then make some excuse saying he left money in the car. Obviously when this happens you look at yourself and it starts making you a bit insecure. In my 5 years of doing this, its happened 6 times.

I have noticed that this usually comes from asian men.

I have other thoughts thinking that some of these clients just like to come in and get off on the fact that they have seen you - but I can't help but to feel bad about myself each time.

Has this happened to you, and if it has, what are your thoughts on this?

[sarahxxx]

I have other thoughts thinking that some of these clients just like to come in and get off on the fact that they have seen you - but I can't help but to feel bad about myself each time..

Why?

It has happened to you just 6 times in 5 years, it is all about them, as you have said, you have plenty of regulars so you must be doing something right.

Guys get their kicks in many strange ways... Others may just get cold feet.

But worry about it? Never!

Sarah x x x

[androidqueen]

Perhaps... has it ever happened to you? and if did/it has/ how did/would you handle it?

[oneandonlyMrsJones]

This happened to me last week.
He introduced himself by text, saying
'b dwn 930 do u do anal'

I replied
'no I don t
and no you won t'

Then I made a BIG mistake, I forgot to save his name as 'rude git, avoid'

When he phoned I didn t realise it was him.
He arranged to visit at 1.30 and did not show, then he called to say he was delayed.

I told him if he did not arrive in the next half hour he would miss his slot, I was booked for 3pm ( a lie, but convenient )

The little f***** showed up at 2,45 , I told him he had cut it too fine and I could not squeeze in a visit

And so he looked at me and said
'Too old, too old for me '
he turned and walked away.

Which begs the question, can he read ? It says plainly on my profile I am 53 but, I daresay, yet another who looks at pictures and doesn t do words !

He is now saved as 'Contemptuous Git. Wind the f***** up'

I didn t feel bad about myself at all though I do wish he had been in MY class at school. I would have attempted to have taught him some sadly missing personal skills.

Thank God, a narrow escape.

[sarahxxx]

Yes it has happened to me several times over many years, I really do not give it much thought. It is up to them, they are free to choose what they wish to do so just let them walk. just think of it like this:-

Next...

Sarah x x x

[oneandonlyMrsJones]

Slightly off topic but closely related- the mentality of some punters ( a minority, I accept, so many are great guys )
I had a cam booking at 1 a.m and whilst I was busy, my phone rang twice which I ignored.

I sent a taxt apologising and asking if he d lke to call back in the morning.

Persistent git insisted he had to see me now as he was close by and didn t know when he d be off next.

I declined.

But he kept on.
'I am really close to you.'

Then it dawned on me, he didn t know where I was- so I challenged him.

You are in Swansea , he responded.
No ! A small town 5 miles out of Swansea,

'But I am on the M5' he said.

That was it ! I am close to the M4, j45

I freaked out.

It s outrageous, being 'close by' when he was an hour, probably 90 mins away !
Expecting me to stay up another 90 mins - maybe more, he still has to locate me at the end of the M4 (not much chance of that if his geography and map reading is so puerile , I'd probably have had to have talked him in )

Just so he could lick my feet !

'Lick your own feet' I say.

I'm all hyped up now !

Must be from Pluto.Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[Nova70]

I'd walk away from a bait and switch of course but given I'm pretty experienced and make my choices carefully these days I don't encounter them very often, I have walked away on a few occasions when I've detected a bad vibe straight away, an unenthusiastic or even hostile attitude. I really wouldn't worry about it though as Sarah said it could just be cold feet as it's not uncommon for first time punters to lose their nerve at the last moment, I doubt the number of times you've suffered this is in anyway out of the ordinary.

[Nova70]

Oh and twice in my punting life I've been rejected by a wg, I can only assume that they didn't like the look of me or my aftershave or something and although I was a bit pissed off about wasting my time I kind of admire their honesty as I'd rather they tell me straight than take my money and give me a shit time, but I'm pleased to say that no wg has ever refused me a second, third, fourth booking after seeing me once.