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girls do u like to be paid at the beginning of the booking or the end
if at the beginning & the booking overuns do u ask for the rest of the fee
if at the end & it overuns do u ask for the total fee including the extra time

guys do u pay at the beginning or end
if at the start & it overuns do u pay the extra or put it down to having a good time
if at the end & it overuns do u pay the set fee or the extra fee as well

[English Kate]

Anyone who takes the fee at the end is taking a huge risk of not getting paid or even being underpaid. Sometimes with regulars I will take the money after, but I have to know them pretty well to do that.

I usually take the money before any fun starts, so I have a clear head. In respect of 'time and money' Usually a set amount is agreed beforehand and that is what I expect to have. If it runs over by 5 or 10 mins max I won't say anything and hopefully he will be aware of this and appreciate it and come back. If we get to 10 mins and still no signs of leaving I will (if switched on) offer him the option to pay more and extend. This usually has the desired affect, without making me look like I'm trying to hurry them through the door.

[Emily of Halifax]

9 times out of 10 with me it is payment up front unless like Kate says I no the person, most of the guys that I see automatically get there wallets out straight away without even prompting I prefer it this way as it takes away any awkward feeling.

I actually state in my faq that payment is to be made on arrival so that we can both then relax and have some fun

[Gina Faith]

First a little background:

As I read all your threads in here, it is much different from the general way of working in Denmark. Most of you, I guess, is what we in Denmark calls Privat/Diskret (private and discreet), where girls work alone from a private address, yhis procedure is only used by a minor group of working girls. Most of the working girls are working from so-called brothels (we like to call it clinics, though).

And now the answer:

Usually the 'client' (we call them guests) pays up front for a specific service or an amount of time, and the 'phone lady' (as I told you about in Room 101) knocks discreet on the door when time is almost up.

I believe I'm the only one in Denmark that takes payment after doing all the fun. I am a GFE and for me it's an annoying break in the sensual mood to do the pay-thing when I have just kissed him welcome and just want to crawl all over him. For me it all starts the moment I lay eyes on him, and I don't want to interrupt the energy between him and me. This is actually very appreciated (about 95% is regulars) and no-one tries to hustle me. I have sometimes forgot it myself, as well as the guest sometimes forget, but my 'phone lady' can run fast. In five years I have only missed one payment - and I never saw him again, though he was a regular before that.

[English Kate]

That was really interesting Gina. I have had some of my clients/guests (I like that term) put the money in the living room or the kitchen and without making mention to it, we just know he has done it. I very rarely count the money while with them as well, although some guys insist on it.

I do understand what you are saying, but sometimes they gent wants a shower or a cuppa and it is easily done with little fuss then or interruption.

I do get carried away sometimes though, it's hard not to.

So far I have been underpaid once and the chap met up with me to pay me the extra, as it had been a mistake. I couldn't get it off him the next time, as I met him on tour and haven't been back there since January.

[MrSmith767]

it changes between ladies, some like to be paid first, some at the end, either way it's no biggie

[jayzee77]

Had a guy last night he paid at the end, didnt have to ask and he got me to check it too (no longer an escort virgin!)

[MrSmith767]

Had a guy last night he paid at the end, didnt have to ask and he got me to check it too (no longer an escort virgin!)

Woohoo, good for you!

Will there be a blog for us?

[jayzee77]

Wouldn't be a patch on your blog and it was only a 30 min booking.

[MrSmith767]

doesn't matter, I can't be the only one to blog, people will get bored of just my writing
(and I have another one to do soon)