GFE What is it?

[zoekent]

Kate agree but that is our job .to be able to give a person what they want require,it is the definition of us .I as much as anyone should know that as i offer free social time to match!
Very much doubt if their is another escort that would spend 5 hours with a client for the price of 1 !

My point i was making .no one can offer a definitive description of gfe.

Full gfe
Gfe
true Gfe
complete gfe
ultimate gfe
All advertised on AW at the moment ,what is the diference?

[English Kate]

You've changed it now lol. I thought you were asking what gfe is and that is what I answered.

The other words are purely adjectives used to catch attention, they are pretty meaningless on their own, but are meant to allure and tempt the man in to the idea of the description I gave earlier. I guess people are just trying to stand out and be original.

I don't think it is just about time though, I mean if it were then you could say that if you offer a gfe it means you will always extend the booking time for free and that is not necessarily giving a good gfe, just more of it. It's more to do with affection and as you say, looking after his needs. In this case his needs are generally wanting to spend time with someone who is interested in him, able to enjoy his company and have a laugh as well as good sex. He is looking for intimate kissing (ie dfk) and those are the things that you don't get with the porn star thing or quickies etc.

[zoekent]

No not changed it honestly do not know! there is a reason i bought this up . 1 on another board someones was having a go at a girl who advertised gfe and only offered kissing at discretion . general opinion was divided as to who was right or wrong .no one could define what it is .result girl was being got at.2 Field reports keeps being mentioned but again different contexts being used .

So yes i would imagine part of your view would come into it ,might even be large part. trouble is men not forth coming as to way they see it . wide variations and interpretations being used on both sides .hence my avoidance of term using a laugh and a joke because i have not got a clue what it means .
Social time covers everything you describe below plus a lot more ,some of my clients have been visiting for over 8 years . prob now a wife experience lol

little loving, laughter and chat. I had one guy while on tour who hugged me in such a way it nearly broke my heart. It was so tender and I can feel how much love he had inside him, but obviously no outlet for it. He may have been married, but certainly not happily if he was.

Post i admit was aimed at male members yo see what they reckoned it meant .

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i think if u offer gfe u have to offer kissing

[Hicky]

Zoe the probelm is you can't fully understand what it is because every guy who wants gfe has a slightly or greatly different view of what it is. That may be because of what their experiences of girlfriends may be or that they would like them to be.

I fellow punter once described to me time he had spent with a particular woman (and not in graffic detail i must add - he did have a little class!) and concluded that she felt like a real girlfriend to him. Now to be honest what he described would have made me run a million miles if she had been my girlfriend but it said more about his previous relationships, which for me must have been very unforfilling , than about anything else. But very obviously his expectations where very different form mine.

So we are all different and have different expetations and desires so no one is ever going to be able to sum up what all these individuals wnat in three little letters. And of course your real skill is to sense quickly what would best suit different individuals - which is why most good wg's would be great physcioanalysts.

[English Kate]

Zoe the lady that did kissing at discretion, was it purely due to reasons like bad breath or was it more a matter of if she liked the person enough or not? I guess what I'm trying to say is, was it more or less likely that she would kiss?

I've kind of got a general disclaimer on my profile that reminds the guys that they need to be squeaky clean and healthy in all departments if they want me to indulge in the services I provide. That way I don't have to use the word 'discretion' as it should be common sense (I say should be).

So far, 'touch wood' I've not had to refuse anyone yet. I do think kissing and cuddles do come under the GFE though and some want more than others. I also think that they generally tend to want to get to know the woman a little more too, because they want to 'connect'.

I have to admit, if the shoe were on the other foot, I would not be looking for a bfe, but that's a different story.

8 years!!! Jeez that is a long time. I think you must have the answer for that. Perhaps ask a few of the regs when you see them, what keeps bringing them back to you and let us know.

[English Kate]

I found this on the net today http://blog.alexsummers.co.uk/?p=206