premature ejaculation

[English Kate]

I had a guy who came every time I touched his willy. ... I had no idea how to address it!

Oh, god, honey! That's so hot! I love it when you cum! Let me lick it up! Now let's see if we can make it cum again!

Men are not that complicated. If he seriously can't keep it up long enough to get a condom on, then he'll probably be happy just cumming, as long as you don't act all disappointed.

And before you ask "but how could anyone not be disappointed?" remember that there are all kinds of people in this world, and some girls would love it that they drove guys wild so easily. Those girls might be rare, but if you make a show of fingering yourself because "Gosh! I love it that you're so hot for me" you may be able to turn it around.

I honestly don't know that I could do this with a straight face, but in theory that's how I think you should do it.

Welcome to the forum strolls x

I like your thinking. It's almost like the theory with children, ie ignore what they are doing wrong and praise what they are doing right and hopefully they improve their general behaviour or performance in this case.

As an Escort it does not bother me at all. I get enough good sex to know that if I'm craving a good rodgering, it's just around the corner, so I'm able to put myself and my needs second in these cases and attempt to make it the best I can for them. I get a lot of guys that don't even want to try for penetration, but I guess they know their bodies and limits best and if oral is what they crave, then that is what they get.

Also I don't know why, but my blow jobs do seem to hit the spot, so I usually reassure my clients not to feel they can't tell me to stop if they feel they are going to cum sooner than they want to, as I am happy change pace or be given oral instead. This seems to put them at ease and they do usually take advantage of the offer to communicate.

[Atx]

I'll put my hands up and say I suffer from it.... I never used to suffer fr om it, and it was a bit ramdom how it came about.....

I used to be a successful stock broker, and my ex, well to say she was out of my leauge is a bit of an understatement, and was only after one thing..... We were out at a party, having a good night etc and she bumped into one of her friends. I went to the bar and when I came back they were talking and didn't realise I could hear them. In a nutshell the conversation went along the lines of 'so that's the millionaire who's shit in bed then... At which point she agreed and procceeded to slag me off to high heaven.....

Anyway... since that happened I started suffering from pme.... It's only the first time though. After I've cummed once then i'm fine for the more sex that follows, but the first time... if I was a woman I'd laugh.

So that's my story, had a fit mrs, found out what she really thought about me, caused the premature ejaculation, then I lost all my money in a bad deal, and then she left anyway... As is life lol.

In some weird way I actually see the funny side to it all...

[SassyAnn]

Atx, as the saying goes, try, try and try again!

[English Kate]

Atx welcome to the site and I'm sorry you found yourself such a bitch. Not all women are like that and now you don't have the money, next time at least they will be with you for who you are instead of what they can get from you.

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welcome Atx i know a few women who are bitches with how they try to get to guys

[Atx]

Atx welcome to the site and I'm sorry you found yourself such a bitch. Not all women are like that and now you don't have the money, next time at least they will be with you for who you are instead of what they can get from you.

Thanks, I definately learned a lot from it all. I'm still in my 20's so plenty of time to get back ontop. To be fair I probably brought it on myself. Once I hit it big I wanted to live the dream so to say, but ended up attracting the wrong type of people who were more than happy to help themselves.

I believe it's called karma...

[English Kate]

Atx welcome to the site and I'm sorry you found yourself such a bitch. Not all women are like that and now you don't have the money, next time at least they will be with you for who you are instead of what they can get from you.

Thanks, I definately learned a lot from it all. I'm still in my 20's so plenty of time to get back ontop. To be fair I probably brought it on myself. Once I hit it big I wanted to live the dream so to say, but ended up attracting the wrong type of people who were more than happy to help themselves.

I believe it's called karma...

Sounds like you have a healthy attitude and have reflected on the past well. We all make mistakes, but we don't all learn from them. I have a feeling you won't be down for long x

[SassyAnn]

Atx, I meant all the things Kate said. I just put it more succinctly !

[English Kate]

Atx, I meant all the things Kate said. I just put it more succinctly !

*virtual bat over the head*

[abcdef]

Atx, I meant all the things Kate said. I just put it more succinctly !

*virtual bat over the head*

wayhay can i be the referee u both need to be naked tho