disliking something

[abcdef]

this is for the guys & women

if either do something to u that u dont enjoy will u tell them

personally im quite blunt & they just get told to stop it, as giving them guidance doesn't seem to work

[Emily of Halifax]

I try the guidance thing first but if that fails they are told in no uncertain terms to stop

[English Kate]

Hehe I'm very direct. I don't like rimming or A play, so I tell them to stop if they go near. If someone is slighty off centre, I will take their hand and direct them and if that doesn't work I'll change tac and do something different or introduce my magic wand. I have told people they need to go lighter, go harder and I have asked guys to finger me when they go down on me too. I also say stuff like, if you would like me to cum xxx really works.

I will also mention if nails are not nice or need trimming etc, but sometimes I have just ridden the storm. I'm not sure how you tell someone that they are biting you when they are kissing you without upsetting them, especially when they seem oblivious to the fact that they are doing. Kissing is such a personal thing and I sometimes wonder that I'm being a tad too selfish asking them to do it the way I like it, as they must like the way they do it, or why would they do it that way?

[SassyAnn]

I had a guy chew my face off kissing once. So I did say "I won't have a face left if we continue like that, Hannibal!".

Kissing who knew there were so may ways? I tend to go with the flow and follow their lead.

I try and change our positions if we're getting into something I don't like. If they become insistent then I ask them what they're aiming for and will say I'd rather they didn't... if it's what I think they were aiming for!

[Tom30]

I always tell/guide her to stop. Many escorts seem to aim for fondling with my balls, im very sensitive there and dont like them being played, for some reason it does nothing for me unlike probably most men.

Likewise before doing anything i always reassure her to let me know if theres something i do which she dont like.

[SassyAnn]

Some guys find it painful having their foreskin pulled back, and some hate having their balls played with. I always have a quick check before I do anything so I know what might turn them off!