I don't like AdultWork.com very much!

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I don't know if these forums specifically are for talking about the site adultwork.com, or for the subject of adult work in general, but I honestly do not like adultwork.com anymore.

There are too many fake or inactive profiles. Steep prices. Foreigners coming over and defrauding us. Lack of interest. No GFE. No manners. No nothing etc. If you spent ages creating an account and blocking from view all the fakes and morons, who are you left with?

I'm 27 and I've got a mental disability. I only get benefits to live on, so I can hardly ever afford the longer punts, like the one hour bookings people ought to aim for so they aren't being made to rush. So the issue at hand is that I sometimes waste money punting and then come begging family to help out because it's been a vicious cycle of borrowing money and then punting again too quickly, instead of waiting until my finances are back to normal. That takes time, even if you feel you have the money there to do it, as quite often you'll have less money in general if you've borrowed money and then had to repay a lot of it back, but I suppose the big deal nowadays is that I am horny as hell and I am no longer a patient person, especially when it comes to waiting ages for a shag. And I cannot do out calls to my house and blab about it ever again, because it's supported accommodation. I've slipped up before by revealing what I did and it is my home at risk here. That matters the most in life. Shagging does not matter if you lose your home.

I'm a thin guy and I don't exercise. I also feel rather nervous about seeing strangers and booking girls online can be a chore in itself, because it ain't easy to get anybody to answer their phone. Then I was getting annoying impotence issues when I got to the venue, so my dick was practically useless. I've got a lot of sagging skin down there too, so the idiots don't even put the condoms on properly and they never trim their bloody nails. A guy's foreskin has to be fully retracted and if it doesn't retract all the way down my cock, maybe I need to look into buying bigger condoms. I'd even put them on myself if I knew how. Although I've purchased Viagra to help me attain an erection, it works by raising your blood pressure and so it tends to knock me out for hours afterwards, and my dick is left feeling sore. However, on the plus side, it does do its job. Without it, I can do nothing sexually.

I try to punt within my means, but I get desperate and squander all my money on bad, usually 15-30 minute punts. Then I feel like an idiot because I still want to have sex after I leave their flat with a red face, but then I've not got any punting money left for to see anyone else, because I've just wasted it on another crappy punt. This is why it would be better to have a real girlfriend, because then if I had one to love me back, I wouldn't need to be wasting money on hookers.

Many of the women I've seen can hardly speak basic English. They don't seem enthusiastic about anything I'm doing or saying. They won't even make any effort to converse about anything and on top of that, I had one bitch use baby oil as lube, so my condoms instantly burst three flipping times. She didn't want to be kissed and that's arguably one of the most sensual activities one can do in the bedroom, rather than just straight-up screw someone. Then the cow wanted me out the door in a hurry. We were going to do anal, but she couldn't do it and refunded me £20 of the £60 back. The reason I couldn't do it was because she hadn't used the proper lubrication and the condom has to be on a guy's dick neatly, not just forced over the skin.

I'd been to the same house before to see another Polish woman who was better than who I seen, but she's seemingly left. I wish she had stayed and that other person is a poor, poor replacement. It didn't feel like 15 minutes at all, although if you counted the preparation time, condom changes etc, it probably was. Also, I think her profile is fake because the photos are different now.

So I also went to a sauna one time recently and the huge BBW chick I saw that day didn't shower before or after the punt, which is disgusting. She smelled really bad. I had to touch her body for leverage when I was pumping her from behind. Having a girl in your company with poor hygiene would offend anybody. I know this because I too don't really shower much and people do notice these things if you have bad BO from not washing up. Although it can get hot in the saunas, especially in the hottest season, so that could be why she was soaked in sweat. But still.

The escorts agencies are really just as bad, for they often have inaccurate details on their websites, or it's 100% faked. Like you book a lady you like the look of, hoping to get your money's worth, they deceive you by sending out some unattractive ho to your house in place of the incredible "stunner" you thought you were going to be seeing. I've been caught out with this at least twice now, if not three times. What a way to gain loyal customers.

It's becoming crap and a waste of money and energy to carry on punting on adultwork.com or any other services like it, and I know in life you only get what you pay for, but if one hour bookings would just turn out the same as the quicker ones, it would be pointless to continue. I just feel like calling it quits. I'm frustrated by all this carry on and it's bugging me.

P.S. I have actually had some great punts too, although they are becoming scarce now.

Girls that charge more are not necessarily better, and you can end up wasting a lot of money..
The 1hr bookings with their much greater cost would be much worse when the punt doesn't go as you hoped.

You could try to make use of the time you might have, and then travel out to far away parts where it costs less.

Unless you have a lot of money, really lots of money, it's not affordable to regularly see escorts..

Make sure you have a good internet connection and be OK with internet porn. Men nowadays are much more fortunate than our ancestors, much less sexual frustration. You can have all the girls you want, a whole harem of girls, without needing to even shower or get changed or brush your teeth.

What you say about problems with them putting on the condom is a bit silly, learn how to put a condom on yourself, go buy one or order some online and practice at home.

And remember regarding the costs, even people on a reasonably good income, are shocked when told how much an escort costs.

I'm sure even the people that help you with other issues you have would feel like they are in heaven if they received even half or some, even a third of what escorts get.

And not all guys find kissing to be so important, and not all escorts are ok with kissing.. they have to have sex with you but not kiss you. So you'd have to check beforehand, maybe in email or text, if you are too anxious to call them, or can't manage the conversation flow when they pick up the phone.

You write "I had one bitch use baby oil as lube, so my condoms instantly burst three flipping times. She didn't want to be kissed and that's arguably one of the most sensual activities one can do in the bedroom,"

The term bitch is kind of derogatory as an insult specific to women, so it gives the impression that part of the problem is her being a woman.. which I guess is kind of true in the prostitute case.. but still, better to use another term. Like 'horrible person'.

And it doesn't make her a horrible person if she used one lubricant when you prefer another. .. maybe you know something better.. or maybe they don't normally burst with it.. maybe you just have a girthy dick.. you should measure your girth. Condoms can also break because some condoms are thicker than others..

You can restrict yourself to only doing 1hr with girls that agree to 15/20min. But it's still a waste of money.. 15/20min is still expensive.. and from the sounds of it, doesn't work for you. But that's one way you can know the 1hr will be worthwhile.

Often a girl that is new is very hot and wants to please the client and just hasn't risked charging super high prices yet, and there are new escorts all the time. So you don't have to pay like crazy high end escort level to get a nicer looking woman and it won't change their behaviour.

You can also try to avoid agencies and find an independent that you like.. then stick with them. But again, prices are expensive regardless. Make use of internet porn to prevent desperation. It's a luxury our ancestors couldn't even have dreamt of.