Guys, what stops you from leaving feedback on Adultwork?

[Scotty_Hottie]

Something us girls experience is that there's a lot of fellas who don't leave feedback. Including guys who come back repeatedly and are evidently having fun with us.

Feedback isn't the bottom line, but it does make us feel very appreciated, and having high feedback can make us seem more "desirable" and many of us want to gain more positives.

So what stops you from leaving it? I'm having a curious moment...

(poll includes various reasons, but I'm sure there's more so do post them)

[MrSmith767]

I had to go with if I can't say anything nice....

I very rarely don't leave any feedback (though I'm not really into webcamming as you know)

The only times I haven't are when I feel I have been let down, it doesn't happen often. If it is so bad that I haven't left feedback, then the person involved more than likely would have got negative feedback from someone else, however I just know that if I leave a justified negative feedback for someone I will immediately get a negative response in return.

[MissWombat]

I am quite annoyed, I cammed with 7 guys today and not one has left me feedback yet! I'll be very sad if they don't over the next few days :/

[Gracie_Rocks]

I am quite annoyed, I cammed with 7 guys today and not one has left me feedback yet! I'll be very sad if they don't over the next few days :/

I wouldn't worry about it. I sometimes have a really busy day and do quite well; and then realise no-one left any feedback, i don't see it as a huge deal, most guys don't read our profiles and i am sure not that much attention is payed to feedback.

[Trinity-Belle]

I just know that if I leave a justified negative feedback for someone I will immediately get a negative response in return.

Did you not realise that there is a trick you can use to prevent that from happening?

I thought all the, err, "veteran" guys knew it?

(not going to say on the open forum, obviously!)

Personally I think the whole feedback system would benefit from a few more negs and neutrals? It looks a bit sycophantic at the moment... everyone loves everyone... a proper little love in!

Also, an occasional neg on a guys feedback profile isn't really a big deal... if we can see you've had 20 positives and left 20 positives for girls and then all of a sudden a neg creeps in and we look at the feedback you left for that girl - well, most of us are clever enough to suss "spite feedback" when we see it.

I've had a few guys actually ask me not to leave them feedback because they don't want other girls knowing that they have seen a "girl like me", which I do kind of understand. Otherwise I think most just can't be arsed. They come here, have a lovely time, and then when they walk out the door they want to forget all about me... until the next time the urge takes them, that is! It's kind of what escorting is about in many ways.

I suspect that the kinds of guys who contribute to forums are probably the kinds of guys who do leave feedback, so I think this poll might end up a bit skewed? Will be interested to see the results, though.

[andy5733]

Twice I have written FRs and FBs, only for the girl, (or pimp?/Agency) to ignore it and not do their bit to activate it.

The last one I did that was successfully published didn't last long as a few days later she set up a new profile.

[andy5733]

They come here, have a lovely time, and then when they walk out the door they want to forget all about me... until the next time the urge takes them, that is! It's kind of what escorting is about in many ways.

There is a truism about prostitution: We men pay prostitutes so we can fuck them. We also pay prostitutes to fuck off afterwards too...

[Simon]

The only girls I don't leave feedback for are those using a shared profile (AW doesn't want feedback intended for one person to show up for another).

[blue-satin]

They come here, have a lovely time, and then when they walk out the door they want to forget all about me... until the next time the urge takes them, that is! It's kind of what escorting is about in many ways.

There is a truism about prostitution: We men pay prostitutes so we can fuck them. We also pay prostitutes to fuck off afterwards too...

I am so pleased I don’t escort Andrew!
The use of your terminology would completely terrify someone like me and others for sure.
May be its me, since, I have a habit of putting people first..
Having said that I bet underneath you are a smashing guy.
I wish you all the best BSx

[Trinity-Belle]

Thing is, blue, he is right... a little crude, perhaps, but right. Who was it - Ronnie Wood or someone - who said "I don't pay prostitutes so that they will sleep with me, I pay them to go away afterwards"

It's part of the scene - temporary lovers - women of negotiable virtue.

Most guys don't want to form any kind of "relationship" - in fact, that is exactly what they are seeking to avoid!