how do u choose your ladies

[abcdef]

guys how do u choose your ladies what makes the deciding factor

also do u have a backup plan on the day in case of anything going wrong

[bluecat069]

There are a number of factors in making that choice for me.

Firstly it comes down to professional appearance of their website and/or profile page. When that is well done it inspires confidence in the professional approach of the lady offering her services.

An upfront and honest presentation of what the lady wishes to provide in her services and what she expects from her clients also adds to that confidence and implies forethought and consideration for both the safety and discretion of any potential encounter which I believe is crucial to both parties.

Links to honest feedback certainly help to confirm the validity and honesty of what the lady is presenting as an image of herself and the services she wishes to offer.

Once I feel confident of those things it comes down to the all important sense of whether or not I will be able to get on personally with them in a a short space of time, along with physical attraction, to ensure that she and I can both enjoy the experience of meeting. That part is obviously subjective and cannot be guaranteed but if the exchange of emails or brief phone conversation is part of her booking process then it can help to establish this.

If it goes wrong and we don't get on then I will accept the loss. It's my view that I have made an agreement to pay for the time of an appointment and I am obliged to honour that. However, if I feel I have been deceived by the presentation of the services or appearance I won't be sticking around for long and I will blacklist that lady. Unfortunately, leaving negative feedback is rarely constructive but if I felt deception (I haven't ever had that when I've been careful about my choice and followed the above) was involved I would attempt to do so in calm language in the hope of making other's aware.

I hope that's useful information.

[abcdef]

thanks bluecat its for some newbie punters looking for advice

[kenny m]

thanks bluecat its for some newbie punters looking for advice

Its good feedback Bluecat, and welcome by the way, but its a bit cold when you read it that way, its about fun that some of us do the homework, its tittalation to read some of the reviews and imagine yourself in these posts, and the thrill of trying to find something that you had not thought of for a while.

Be it clothes, or what services are on offer, from the look of someone, to the size and age, they all come into play and nine times out of ten I end up seeing a lady nothing like what i started out to find...thats the thrill of looking, you never know whom you are going to end up seeing, one wordm of advice though, ber honest with yourself and dont enquire unless you have given it some thought and really want to see the escort.

Its best to always delay an e-mail about their availability to make sure your still looking for what the lady has to offer, that way its not just an erotic thought that has to be satified at the moment in time.

[Emily of Halifax]

Hi Bluecat nice to have you here

[MrSmith767]

Depending on my working hours...

I tend to read profiles and feedback first, then send a tentative email to one or two that catch may attention.
I work kind of erratic hours, so I tend to ask if they are free during a certain window of times.
Whoever replies first I email again, apologising that I can't always nail down an exact time, and ask if I can call a couple of hours before to make a confirmed booking.

If I'm not working then I do pretty much the same, however as I know my plans I can make a firm booking there and then.

[English Kate]

I worry about the 'professional' thing. I mean any one with a couple of hundred can pay someone else to make them a site, they can pay for photo's that make them twice as looking, but is it really them you are buying in to or the prople they employed?

Is the content not more important or good amateur pics?

[bluecat069]

I worry about the 'professional' thing. I mean any one with a couple of hundred can pay someone else to make them a site, they can pay for photo's that make them twice as looking, but is it really them you are buying in to or the prople they employed?

Is the content not more important or good amateur pics?

When I say "professional" appearance I'm not necessarily referring to a fancy website. One of the best AW profiles I ever saw was for a lady who didn't have a separate website at all and the two meets I had with her were exceptional. Her profile was candid, honest and even a little demanding but most importantly the impression she gave was of someone fun and that I found incredibly attractive (I got that sense even she hadn't shown her face in her photos). Chemistry between people is important in any kind of encounter and it's something you can't ever really predict. All part of the fun though .

[English Kate]

I worry about the 'professional' thing. I mean any one with a couple of hundred can pay someone else to make them a site, they can pay for photo's that make them twice as looking, but is it really them you are buying in to or the prople they employed?

Is the content not more important or good amateur pics?

When I say "professional" appearance I'm not necessarily referring to a fancy website. One of the best AW profiles I ever saw was for a lady who didn't have a separate website at all and the two meets I had with her were exceptional. Her profile was candid, honest and even a little demanding but most importantly the impression she gave was of someone fun and that I found incredibly attractive (I got that sense even she hadn't shown her face in her photos). Chemistry between people is important in any kind of encounter and it's something you can't ever really predict. All part of the fun though .

Thanks for clarifying that bluecat and yes I agree, that is kind of how I try and project myself, so I'm glad that is what you meant.