Best way of sorting out what one wants before money is exchanged

[Forrest-gimp]

Had mostly great experiences with Escorts. But lately had some problems getting girls to do as they agreed via text/email/verbally and listed as things they like. Main problem is not being allowed to have sex more than once in the meeting. Always with foreign girls

Any tips from the girls or more experienced clients on how to get what one wants has paid for without

1. Arguing with the girl before getting down to business
2. Offending her
3. Getting into trouble with her "bouncer" . Never happened so far but you hear of so many horror stories

Joe

[Trinity-Belle]

Errr.... choose your girls more carefully?

Other than that, I don't know what to suggest.

[roxysummner]

HAHA yeah Trinity-Belle is totally right just what I was thinking when I first read this I have never had this problem in 3 and half years

I don't think there is another answer xXx

[xKatieBabyx]

Agree with Trinity. You need to spend time getting to know a girl at least a little before meeting. That way you can get an idea of each other and a feel for what would be ok/ off limits. Respect her decision to not do something, even if it was originally agreed. I understand it could be frustrating for you, but I believe if you do all the above you probably won't encounter that problem anyway x

[Forrest-gimp]

Lol you girls crack me up, honestly
Firstly without sounding like a tube how do you " choose girls more carefully"? Here is what I do and if I am doing anything wrong feel fre to correct me at any point as we all want a good time and to leave mutually happy. Select girl by pictures on profile, after all most clients prefer a certain "type". Look at list of likes after reading profile thoroughly to make sure she enjoys what you enjoy. Look for feedback and field reports if available, but sometimes not available. Incidentally my favourite 2 escorts had no feedback at all and I was first I give feedback and they were great and I see them regularly . Email or text girl and confirm what I would like, her availability for times that suit, and a must for me is to have a chat with girl to get a feel of what she is like. I also make sure over the phone that they are happy with everything again, same as text/email to allow them to change there mind. Finally arrange meeting and then once again discuss what I require and it is at this point suddenly a certain service is unavailable or restricted......such as you can only cum once in 1/2 hr or 2 times in hour etc or sorry I don't do that despite having that as a like and confirming when I have texted / emailed etc.
I just gets the feeling some are new to this and see it as an easy way too make some cash and just want a client to turn up as he is Unlikely to leave ......
I am always polite and never ask them to do anything they are uncomfortable as I would not do anything I was uncomrtable with such as slapping, pain WS or HS etc
What I have done is changed 1 hr meetings too 1/2 hr once a restrictionis put in place ...but I have been worried that I get a negative reaction by doing this. S should I book 1/2 hr and then if we are BOTH enjoying ourselves and happy to entertain each other extend to the 1 hr meeting / rate.... Or is this frowned upon

Any thoughts in the matter greatly appreciated as we all want to have a good one but I don't like false advertising...if you say you kiss then kiss ...if you only allow people to cum once don't say unlimited cum on your profile...

Also what feedback if any should I leave girls who have been economical with the truth shall we say

Joe

[Trinity-Belle]

Well... you could start by seeing whether you can find out anything else about the girl from anywhere other than her own profile which, after all, she wrote herself (or else it was written for her) and so is bound to be a little bias?

Most girls have a twitter account these days and there are thousands of comments and reviews on third party websites.

If you google trinity belle escort then you will find that the first three or four pages of results are pretty well all me, so you can find out a heck of a lot about me from what I say on forums like this and also about what other people think of me from reviews they have left in places other than AW. And more importantly, you can see that I am a real person and mine is not a made up profile!

Sounds to me like you struck it lucky with those two zero feedback girls... we've all got to start somewhere, but seeing a girl who is relatively new and has no feedback is a bigger risk than seeing a girl who has been on the site for a long time and has tons of positive feedback and field reports. There is a particular type of guy who likes to seek out new blood... but they know it is a risk, and that risk is part of the thrill for them I guess. If that is not you (and it sounds like probably it isn't) then stick to more established girls.

The other thing you would do well to remember is that if it looks too good to be true, then it probably is. Nubile young 18 year old blonde haired blue eyed model doing full service for £60 an hour? Yea... right...

[x Connie x]

can't agree more with trinity etc. also, sorry to say this but if its only with foreign girls......well.

and, if a foreign girl (or any girl for that matter) isn't comfortable doing stuff that's listed on her profile and you feel there may be a 'bouncer' lurking about - i'd seriously think about reporting your concerns to the police. this is mabey just a bugbear of mine but i always feel foreign or vulnerable girls working in flats don't get the same peer support and advice on their rights as they would working within a group of british girls.

[x Connie x]

just noticed the 1/2hr thing.

- if you cut time i had put aside for you (another client could have been turned down), i'd be a bit pissed off too - contrary to what some punters believe this can often affect the quality of the service provided

- you may not be able to extend a half hour booking to an hour due to your escorts prior commitments.

IMO most girls wouldn't have a problem with you cumming again. if a girl does - instead of cutting your time (and i'm assuming here, as you say the girls have been annoyed) and fee back, i'd consider just chalking it up as a bad experience, mabey asking for a massage or having a chat if you have to get your exact moneysworth of time. i'd say stick to the duration you originally agreed and if you don't 'click' and you have to cut your appointment short just suck it up otherwise you'll just come across as a bit cheap.

[Forrest-gimp]

Trinity-Belle, thanks for all that useful info. Very useful and something I will look into in before booking a girl that has zero feedback. On the subject of price etc I too think the same same as you if it is too of to be true then it probably is. All of my meetings have been booked or at least 1hr and some have been extended to upto 3 hours as we have both been having fun. Pricewisece i am usually happy to pay a fair price but I usually have a ceiling price of £180 per hour for I call. Lowest has been £100 per hour

Connie thanks for your input. For threading you stated I never book 1/2 hr only hr+ . So far I have fantastic meets expect 3 which have been good but just had restrictionis put on things we could do. Very frustrating as a client when you have booked for 1hr and girl says sorry only 1-2 cum and you're sitting there with raging hard on ready to go again, lol. I have so far put it down to learning. What amazes me is attitude from escort. 1st got paid fr hour, we had fun and I came with approx 1/2 hr left. She gets dressed and says she is leaving as I have cum!!!
Second girl was gorgeous but again only 1 cum allowed but she gave me refund and only charged for 1/2 hr ......weird or what. Both of them had zero FB
3rd girl was good fun we clicked and had a great laugh but again I used up my 2 orgasms within 40 minutes. She then loses interest and starts looking at her phone and even answers to a client nd makes a booking whilst I am still there!!! WTF!!! I got changed and left unimpressed by lack of proffesionalism

So why should I do ref FB.

But most girls have been great and time wizzes by as we bth have great fun. My fav always gets booked by me for 1 hr minimum but I always ask if I can stay longer. Sometimes I stay 2-3 hrs as we both have fun. Other times I leave after 1 hr as it was not so great for either of us and we could both sense that

Joe

[Ana_X]

3rd girl was good fun we clicked and had a great laugh but again I used up my 2 orgasms within 40 minutes. She then loses interest and starts looking at her phone and even answers to a client nd makes a booking whilst I am still there!!! WTF!!! I got changed and left unimpressed by lack of proffesionalism

So why should I do ref FB.

Whilst I agree that was rude of her to do so, I have to say that it takes two to make a great session. Are your conversation skills up to much? Interested in anything other than fucking? If you've popped twice and still have twenty minutes left of your booking do something else with those minutes. Like chatting, or playing with each other, massage... you know, something other than sticking your knob in. If you're giving off dull uninterested vibes then she's going to pick up on them - and I'm picking up that you'd lost interest because you'd 'used your two orgasms within 40 minutes'. Give your imagination a boot up the arse, it won't hurt.

And the best reason you have ever to leave feedback for any escort you've seen is to let your fellow punters know how you rated the meeting. Wouldn't you like someone to gave you a nod if a girl you liked was a sack of spuds between the sheets? Of course you would, you'd feel out of pocket if you spent your cash on that, so do other guys the favour and leave feedback. Easy peasy.