starting a experience

[beginner]

Hi Everyone
I been looking on your site for a while & as i am in my middle age years ( 47 to be exact ) i have only have sex a few times, so i am inexperienced.
I want to enjoy myself with some lovely women on this site before i get to old ( if i am not already ) & life is to short, i dont want to think i wish i done this & that when i am in a old peoples home
I see other member reports having the time of thier life, but i am a worrier & i really dont want to offend the ladies at all on here.
i wont see any lady who does bareback, but if i fully pusue this experience, do i have to have std checks on my self periodically.
I hope i havent offended anyone & would appriciate honest feedbacks.
beginner

[HORNN]

yes anyone who has multiple partners need to get checked regular, for their own safety as well as others...
even if you have protected sex their is a possibility of catching genital warts(HPV) or herpes.. skin to skin contact,
to be on safe side my motto is to get tested for peace of mind... i get myself checked every 3 months, though i always use condoms all the time, but you just never know.

[Trinity-Belle]

Yes, definitely get yourself checked from time to time.

Most decent working girls will get themselves checked, usually about every two or three months, but we are all in this together and we owe it to ourselves and to one another to make sure that we minimise the risks... make this experience as fun and as safe as possible.

You can go to the GUM clinic anonymously... they will ask for your contact details and your GPs details, but you can decline to answer... they are quite used to that!

I've always found the staff at GUM clinics to be very lovely and totally non judgemental. They know I escort and so need to have a full check regularly... it really isn't an issue to them.

[beginner]

Hi Miranda
Thank you for your reply, do you think i should only see one escort or have maybe play up to four or five, but keep no more then that.
adi x

[beginner]

Thanks trinity belle
i think both you & miranda are right, i will have to get checked out if i pursue this adventure
i will have to do some serious thinking

[Trinity-Belle]

do you think i should only see one escort or have maybe play up to four or five, but keep no more then that.

Do as you please!

Some guys like to find a girl and stick with her (but you may have to try a few before you find one you like). Other guys like to mix it up a bit. Sometimes guys will see one girl three or four time then move on. Guys sometimes come back after a year or more away... each to their own... what ever makes you feel good!

Just go see a girl you like the sound of... you can decide afterwards whether you want to continue to see her or see someone else... it's not something you have to think about in advance.

[dlg79]

As a reasonably new guy on the scene, ive seen a few girls over the past months. I found the best way is to know exaclty what you want from your meeting and go with your gut instinct about the girl your thinking off. Most of these women are professionals and will totally put you at ease. I'm still a very nervous client, but find its taking far less time for the nervs to settle. Take your time when choosing your first partner, (dont always go straight for the beautiful pics as they not always what they seem), I'm sure many of these girls come across guys like yourself all too often and will do they best to make you feel at ease. I'm certainly no playbay stud and carry a fair bit of weight, so i often ask the girls first if they mind seeing guys like me, ( i like to pre-warn) and ive never been turned away. In fact ive had some very flattering compliments that has totally boosted my low selfasteem and improved my confidance tremandously. It has also helped rejuvinate what was a slightly stale relationship .
Show them repsect, go fully freshened up, and most of all be prepared to enjoy yourslef. Things will naturally progress.

[rpg]

You're by no means too old. I've only been seeing Escorts for a year and I'm 55.
You sound a genuinely nice guy so my advice is don't rush in to a girl you lust after. Take your time and be guided by feedback and field reports. You're far more likely to have a good experience with an established Escort who will have seen many "first timers"
Good luck

[sarahxxx]

Take your time and be guided by feedback and field reports

Rather than your nob you mean, like most guys....

That all sounds a bit pre-planned, but I guess it works for some, it just depends on what type of guy you are.

Sarah x x x

[rpg]

For us "genuine" older guys a bit of pre-planning ensures a better meeting. Please don't tar all punters with the same brush.