Cheeky Bitch! Rant alert!

[iluvjem]

I'm sorry to any girl who has ever come into my freeview box and not found me the most welcoming.

This is for several reasons including the fact I dont think it's appropriate. This is my work space, I dont want other girls coming in; just to chat or ask me how business is (that is also not something I wish to discuss in an open chat box with strangers girls, boys whoever)

I've had girls come into my freeview box to advertise there services or there tour. I've had girls just come in to insult me! (yes all genuine looking profiles)

I used to have this "regular" guy that would come to insult me in freeview, send me malicious emails etc. An escort came into my box, I found her to be quite cheeky so booted her, only to receive some stroppy email because I had. What do you know that girl had aliases to the "regular insult guy"

and tonight I get this......

sexyclaire1986 enters the room
sexyclaire1986: nice dressing gown
IluvJem: thanks
sexyclaire1986: are you escorting
IluvJem: why?
sexyclaire1986: no i only ask as i had a client that wanted 2 girls thats all sorry to offend you
IluvJem: no thanks
sexyclaire1986: ok fine
sexyclaire1986: your ugly anyway
sexyclaire1986 leaves the room

...and that's not the first time she's done this either!



I think from now on every female looking username that comes in my box will be booted before they can say anything!

So if I boot you I hope you understand why.

*and relax*

it is good to vent lol

[HornyHeidiBush]

Hi Jem!

I must admit, I can sometimes be a bit nosy and have every now and then (usually when bored) had a sneak peek at other performers' cams. However, doing it purely to be insulting is just cowardly, for any party.

I can tell you an even more ridiculous story, actually. I once had someone log into my pvt chat, only to say something along the lines of: 'wow, ugly!' i asked him if he was being serious and his response was that he was. I then pointed out that if I really am that ugly it is rather pointless for him to spend 2.50 per minute talking to me. He actally spent over 3 quid just to tell me I was ugly. What a sad, sad little man. Thankfully, i'm confident enough to know that I'm not ugly, and that any fucker who has the audacity to describe me as such is just a dick. Sadly, there are other people who aren't confident, and it only takes one nasty comment like that to affect them badly.

One thing I would say...even though they are a minority, there are female service seekers too. Might it be a bad idea to boot all women out of free chat, incase some of them are genuine?

Heidi x

[iluvjem]

One thing I would say...even though they are a minority, there are female service seekers too. Might it be a bad idea to boot all women out of free chat, incase some of them are genuine?

ah that is simple I dont cater for those

[curvy crumpet]

Why do they do that? I have to admit I often have fellow bbw's pop into my freeview to have a gander at what I do, I tend to just boot them.

I think they do that to steal ideas as they have no imagination of their own

[Classy_Katy]

I've had other AW girls come in and insult me too, real bitches. Lately though they have just been ones asking advice, which I don't mind giving.

A couple of times guys have emailed asking if they can be insulting in directchat and I've been fine with that...they're actually really sweet and go to great pains to say in the email that they don't feel that way about me at all but it's just how they get off.

[sarahxxx]

I am sure web camming is the same as escorting, if it does not feel right or you are not comfortable with it then don't do it.

Sarah x x x

[knight5648]

It sounds to me as though a lot of blokes have 'women issues' .... Maybe had abusive mothers or something? I reckon that if councelors or therapists did cramming then they would make a fortune.......or maybe only if they did it topless......

[Scotty_Hottie]

Cammers coming into my freeview irritates the hell out of me. The females either jump in for 2 seconds without saying anything, just like they are wanting to see what I look like, or they stay to ask how business is (!!) or try to dominate the conversation while I'm talking to guys who might actually pay! Ive only had one girl come in and advertise herself, but to me if ypu str coming in using your cam name, you are already advertising yourself, and that's not cool. The male cammers... Grrr... Either tell me they're bored or that they're trying to stay hard. :-S

Of course, I get nosy occasionally, and I use an innocuous service seeker profile. I make no demands, I am quiet and polite. Some may object to this if they knew, but they just think I'm another guy, albeit one who types whole words. ;-)

[kinkydirtybitch]

if councelors or therapists did cramming then they would make a fortune.......or maybe only if they did it topless......

Funny you should say that (assuming you mean camming) !

[knight5648]

Funny you should say that (assuming you mean camming) !

Yes......'camming' - predictive text on iPad - apparently 'camming' is not in it's dictionary