Swinging

[Daz]

I have noticed, especially over the last year, a significant number of hardcore swingers popping up on adultwork.com and offering escort services.

Just thought I'd mention the trend and see if anyone else had noticed it, perhaps you have even done the same yourself?

[Jeansman]

Not noticed that one Daz, but will keep a watch for it "trending" lol.........more fun to be had here than swinging though...................Tried swinging a while ago, but nothing ever came of it as soooooo many timewasters.
JM.

I have noticed, especially over the last year, a significant number of hardcore swingers popping up on adultwork.com and offering escort services.

Just thought I'd mention the trend and see if anyone else had noticed it, perhaps you have even done the same yourself?

[abcdef]

yes especially from fabswingers & informed consent

[Tom30]

Theres too many time wasters on dating websites etc.

The only way to swing is to go to a swingers club, especially the ones in London some of those are awesome. Makes the swinger clubs near where i live look like kennel clubs.

I used to swing with an ex so ive had some experience with it, not as much as id like to though. Wish single swinging girls wasnt so rare to find. Those who want to swing, men must out number women 100:1

[English Kate]

yes especially from fabswingers & informed consent

Lol, I'm on both of those, but would not describe myself as 'hardcore'. I used to swing around once a month and usually with someone specific and generally go to Chameleons with them. Sometimes we would stick together, some times we would go our seperate ways and some times we would include other people, but never indiscrimantly.

Quite a few of my friends who also Escort went to the same club. I guess it is a natural progression, as it does kind of lose it's edge after a while, when you do the same thing often. I have one friend who finds she does not enjoy unpaid sex any more, as she gets a real ego boost and buzz from the exchange of money, so she has stopped swinging now.

[kenny m]

So with the new found experiance, and the previous thrills failing to give some the buzz they need, what is the next step, I find myself openning new bounderies to myself all the time and wondering where its leading too.

Im having fun finding out though, but if anyone has alreadu been on the journey and can expand upon what the next step is, it might help some folk progress to the next stage.

[Jane22]

The difference between swinging and AW is that swinging is mutual consent i.e. both parties want to have sex with each other, where as on AW the attraction only needs to be one way and the attraction for the Service provider is cash, if anyone tells you different (i.e. that they find you attractive) ask them to meet as a swingers meet i.e. and not pay them.

Guys would be amazed how without the cash in hand their appeal to women vanishes.

[Jeansman]

Escorting is first and foremost a business transaction. That the guy is there is proof that he finds the lady both attractive in her physical sense, and what service(s) she offers for the money he is willing to pay.
The lady finds the guy's money attractive in that she has quoted a price for a service offered, but may also personally enjoy offering that service herself.
Should both parties have an attraction to each other is a mutually beneficial bonus. I have met some truly lovely ladies on AW, both physically and as personality, and hope to continue to do so for some time. Swinging is based on a mutual physical attraction where no money changes hands.
Most ladies regard escorting as a business, and I prefer this as I know what I am going to get, whereas Swinging is largely full of timewasters who may or may not achieve their aim, regardless of your own aims.
No escorting lady is going to meet clients on a Swinging basis, unless there is a deep attraction that transcends the fiscal considerations.
JM..

The difference between swinging and AW is that swinging is mutual consent i.e. both parties want to have sex with each other, where as on AW the attraction only needs to be one way and the attraction for the Service provider is cash, if anyone tells you different (i.e. that they find you attractive) ask them to meet as a swingers meet i.e. and not pay them.

Guys would be amazed how without the cash in hand their appeal to women vanishes.

[kenny m]

There is a swinging club in the town where I live, and its a great way for a few of the escorts to earn money when they are working, I heard from one that the charge is quite minimal for them to work there, and they provide a service to customers who want to swing but dont get very far.

I was told by the escort that she earns quie a bit there and with no time limit she can get some guys in and out in about ten minutes, so the price is inclusive of how long you take, thugh she does know the tricks to get the guy to come quick.

Is this common practice throughout the swinging scene!.

[MrSmith767]

Never tried swinging...... yet