How many escorts are really close to one of there clients?

[Jack12345]

How many escorts are really close to one of there regular clients? I just wonder. I mean really close like maybe see them lots and maybe chat to them about personal stuff and maybe even really enjoy spending time with them?

[Trinity-Belle]

I am like that with many of my regs.

But it is strictly business, and (hopefully) they all know where the line is.

I do occasionally get guys falling in love with me, which is a real pain and needs to be handled delicately.

[Jack12345]

Trinity-Belle Offline why is it a pain that some clients have fallen in love with you? You should be pleased that some men really like you.

[Trinity-Belle]

Trinity-Belle Offline why is it a pain that some clients have fallen in love with you? You should be pleased that some men really like you.

What, am I supposed to be flattered?

You need to stand back and take a good hard look at what you just said.

I don't have self esteem issues, honey!

I have offers in the real world - I am only too aware of men finding me attractive... even if it does bemuse me somewhat. And I have plenty of friends, so I feel assured that I am probably a fairly likeable person, or else people wouldn't want to be friends with me, right?

I really do not need validation, most especially not from clients.

Of course it is nice to be liked, but there is a wide gulf between that and a guy failing to realise that he has bought my affections.

[kinkydirtybitch]

Trinity-Belle Offline why is it a pain that some clients have fallen in love with you? You should be pleased that some men really like you.

Maybe it's not the 'pain' you possibly mistakenly assume it to be

Maybe it is more a case of it being inappropriate to be infatuated (of course it is not love when you do not even know the real person) with the image they are presented with

She has a private life where she is loved for who she is - not the escort she presents in her working life

BIG difference

[Freddo]

You only ever see a escort at there best, there is no way that you should fall for a escort when you have booked her and are paying her for her time.

most escorts like to keep private and working lives seperate and they have to be respected for this

[curvy crumpet]

You only ever see a escort at there best, there is no way that you should fall for a escort when you have booked her and are paying her for her time.

most escorts like to keep private and working lives seperate and they have to be respected for this

Oh if only majority of clients saw things your way...

Client and WG should never blurr the lines between business and personal. I get on very well with my regulars to the point that they know that they can text me for appointments we have great sex and great chats but once that door closes after an appointment that is it until next time.

i find it tedious and very irritating when a client becomes enamoured as I refuse to cater to a mans ego just for the business. You like me for the service I provide and I will be your ultimate lover during the time you have paid me for.

I am horrified when I hear that girls have added clients to their facebook have invited them into their homes and introduced them to their children as "friends" and when these situations go wrong and the client wants more than what the girl is prepared to offer they cry when a client turns nasty.

The only insight anyone has into my life and it is a glimpse is via my blog where i like to talk about funny situations that happen from time to time.

But yes clients get the best of us just like we get the best of them during an appointment, trust me I dont wear make up every day of my life.

[Jack12345]

Is this wrong then that I have been seeing the same escort girl for a 7 months now and I have met a few of her friends and we are both facebook friends and she dose me deals and special things when I see her. She even knows I have feelings for her. I know that we will be no more than friends and lovers now and she and I are now ok with that. I feel its better to put my feelings aside and still have a good friend and lover and someone to talk to about stuff.

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[curvy crumpet]

Is this wrong then that I have been seeing the same escort girl for a 7 months now and I have met a few of her friends and we are both facebook friends and she dose me deals and special things when I see her. She even knows I have feelings for her. I know that we will be no more than friends and lovers now and she and I are now ok with that. I feel its better to put my feelings aside and still have a good friend and lover and someone to talk to about stuff.

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Eventually either one of you will get hurt in the process. So a decision needs making, both of you have already crossed the line. So decide do you continue seeing her as a client or just remain friends but ultimately you will question why are you still paying her for sex when you are such close friends. Or you have the other side of the coin, become friends with her, stop paying her for sex and see whether she is still prepared to be friends.

IT is one of the other it can not be both.

[Jack12345]

I have decided I need a proper girlfriend as I am single. So I am now looking for a proper girlfriend and think the best thing to do is to keep seeing this escort for overnight bookings and having fun with her on overnight bookings and still pay the very cheap price she charges me as I don't know when I will find a proper girlfriend and when I do get a girlfriend I will cross the bridge of what to do about this escort girl. We have talked about are feeling for each other and she is not into a relationship at the moment.