Timewasters

[English Kate]

Hi Dion, having an apartment is great, but you're right when you have had to take time out to get there, freshen up and change, just to find out they are not coming or sit waiting for a no show, it can be very frustrating, especially if you have put off doing something else to be there or missed out on a good night out.

Thank God it's the minority and not the majority!

Welcome to the site by the way

[Strawberryblonde]

Hi Dion, having an apartment is great, but you're right when you have had to take time out to get there, freshen up and change, just to find out they are not coming or sit waiting for a no show, it can be very frustrating, especially if you have put off doing something else to be there or missed out on a good night out.

Thank God it's the minority and not the majority!

Welcome to the site by the way

My worst ones have been one or two who have booked, confirmed, sent texts saying they are on their way, on their way, not far away, might be a little late and then disappear. You've waited around for 30 minutes, because it was a long booking and had the time aside. Another time, advance booking and on the day confirmation, followed by can you describe what we'll do, then texts saying they might be a bit late setting off because they were waiting for the carpet man, this then changed to the garage man, but still indicating they would be attending later on, only to once again disappear. That's phone contact right up to the appointment time, can a 'punter' beat that one?

[English Kate]

I can relate with that Strawberry, it's happened to me once or twice and it makes me so angry!

[crystal denison]

i used to share a house with 2 other working girls and we wud get calls where a punter wud call me book then 5 mins later call my friend and do the same lol by girl 3 we told him on the phone we were onto him !

[abcdef]

heard that is quite common crystal

[English Kate]

I've had that happen a few times with my friend Theresa. I have been sat having a cup of tea with her and got a call, then 2 mins later she got the same call. We used to quite enjoy pointing out to them that we new what they had just done, so funny, but a pain in the backside too.

[Strawberryblonde]

CK

What gets me is when a guy who has been unreliable, no-showed or not confirmed/cancelled in the past gets in touch again and asks for another appointment, I start taking the booking and politely say "I think you made an appointment with me previously, but couldn't make it perhaps?". Now this is oppportunity for an apology or to say "Really sorry changed my mind, or something came up", but no 9 times out of 10 they'll deny they've ever contacted me previously, or put the phone down. One or two chaps have even gone as far to claim they only got their phone last week, so must have been the previous user, and I've even had the excuse that their mates had been messing around with it.

Now how likely is that?Someone buys a phone (and you usually have your own SIM card/number) that another guy has used to book one particular escort, and happens to then book the same girl himself.

[English Kate]

I can relate with that strawberry. I spoke to a guy who had tried to book me ages ago from Gloucester. He would go into detail about his dogging antics and that he often went swinging and his partner would literally shag anything. He then told me he was a Phil Mitchell lookalike and to be honest at this point I had quite enough and told him I did not think I was suitable. He then proceeded to tell me how worthless I was and how dare I reject him and words not so nice to that affect via text.

Not too long after it transpired that he had made a booking with a friend of mine and after being asked for the money up front, had tried to put her off and pay after the booking. My friend insisted on payment up front (as you would with a newbie) and he then presented her with a cheque. Now she should have told him where to go, but apparently she was worried he might kick off, so went through with the booking, just to get him out of the house.

Of course the cheque bounced and she was very upset and had been able to trace his home address, business address and full name from the cheque. We considered going over and demanding the money, but she didn't want the confrontation.

Now several months later he calls me and tries to make a booking. He is very polite an acts like he has never spoken to me before. His name comes up on my phone, so I know we have talked before and it wasn't until after I put the phone down I started to put 2 and 2 together. I confirmed the number with my friend that it was definitely him and yes I was right. I sent him a text saying that I was sorry, but I could not take the booking. He then rang me and asked me why. I explained that I new he had paid my friend with a dodgy cheque and that we had previously spoken and agreed not to meet.

He denied it, saying that it was a works phone and it wasn't him, but somebody else. I asked him why he would be phoning an Escort on a works phone and he was making up all the excuses under the sun. Finally I told him that we had his full name and address and if he was wise he would apologies and not bother me again. He said sorry and put the phone down.

Some men really need locking up!

[Strawberryblonde]

I can relate with that strawberry. I spoke to a guy who had tried to book me ages ago from Gloucester. He would go into detail about his dogging antics and that he often went swinging and his partner would literally shag anything. He then told me he was a Phil Mitchell lookalike and to be honest at this point I had quite enough and told him I did not think I was suitable. He then proceeded to tell me how worthless I was and how dare I reject him and words not so nice to that affect via text.

Not too long after it transpired that he had made a booking with a friend of mine and after being asked for the money up front, had tried to put her off and pay after the booking. My friend insisted on payment up front (as you would with a newbie) and he then presented her with a cheque. Now she should have told him where to go, but apparently she was worried he might kick off, so went through with the booking, just to get him out of the house.

Of course the cheque bounced and she was very upset and had been able to trace his home address, business address and full name from the cheque. We considered going over and demanding the money, but she didn't want the confrontation.

Now several months later he calls me and tries to make a booking. He is very polite an acts like he has never spoken to me before. His name comes up on my phone, so I know we have talked before and it wasn't until after I put the phone down I started to put 2 and 2 together. I confirmed the number with my friend that it was definitely him and yes I was right. I sent him a text saying that I was sorry, but I could not take the booking. He then rang me and asked me why. I explained that I new he had paid my friend with a dodgy cheque and that we had previously spoken and agreed not to meet.

He denied it, saying that it was a works phone and it wasn't him, but somebody else. I asked him why he would be phoning an Escort on a works phone and he was making up all the excuses under the sun. Finally I told him that we had his full name and address and if he was wise he would apologies and not bother me again. He said sorry and put the phone down.

Some men really need locking up!

Oh yes I've also had the 'works phone' one too, as well as the "It wasn't me ringing/texting with all that abuse, it was my mates they mess around with my phone sometimes".

If that's the case how am I supposed to know it's them confirming/phoning on the day, or even reading their messages?Would rather not communicate with someone who can't keep things discrete!

[tinkerbell]

thats really bad ive only ever had one client not show, i dot know about you guys but i can sort of gues when theyre not legitimate

i did have this very nasty gentleman call em once who wanted me to meet him in an abandonded warehouse in wolverhampton, and when i of course said no, i was bomarded with txts and phone calls of very unrepeatable graphic nature.

i just dont understand some people, but i suppose it comes with the territory.