Bareback

[dandandan]

Whenever I search for an escort I always tick the Bareback and Unprotected Sex boxes as I would not even dream of seeing a girl if she didn't offer these services. I can hear a collective gasp! But in reality many many men like to have Bareback Sex with working girls regardless of the stories and one sided opinions on message boards.

We can all use a set of statistics in all walks of life with regards to almost any subject to back up our arguments, the statistics which I have read say that you can have Unprotected Sex with a HIV positive person and the risk of contracting HIV is around 10,000 - 1. This may seem relatively low risk on the face of it but I'm well aware you have as much chance of catching HIV from 1 encounter as you do from 10,000.

My point being us guys who enjoy Bareback will continue to do so as the chances of picking up the virus are as likely from a mainstream girl you meet in a bar as they are a working girl.

I have been enjoying Bareback Sex with working girls for over 5 years and as of my last blood test I was negative. I have had Bareback Sex with over 100 different girls the world over, I'm not here to gloryfy it, I'm just here to add some balance and another perspective to the debate.

It strikes me you're blatantly attempting to court controversy, rather than being motivated by any courage of conviction or having any genuine desire to represent an alternative view. This comic reaction anticipated from your imaginary 'crowd' as they let out a collective gasp, so shocked all us SEX WORKERS are at the sheer impact of your SEX STORY 'revelation', is a ridiculous fantasy; just utterly contrived. You make the entire post seem 'staged', 'set-up' even. The language and syntax are not only a little peculiar, but very feminine in compilation. The verbally antagonistic, Luddite attitude portrays an individual primed to take delight at the thought of their words resulting in an explosive reaction, real relish! This, though, does not marry with the vocabulary then used through out, to reference myself and others in prostitution as 'working girls', for example, or assimilate authenticity with claims of being here to 'add balance' and 'perspective'.

That aside, do remember you are corresponding with a community of sex workers and prostitutes, here, not a gaggle of 'mumsnetter's'. As such, do please catch up to speed with the rest of us that work in the 'action', day in, day out, to realise a few lackluster sentences from a random, ill-informed individual are as likely to prove a catalyst to any collective gasps of shock or amazement, as the most mundane fucking non-event ever! Oh, I dunno?! Let's plum for cliche, why don't we? You're orchestrated, calculated 'sex bomb' proved as gasp inducing as paint drying.

You are clearly either full of shit or, erm, full of shit and condescending with it.

I actually found this post from MissEsoteric very condescending and rude so I registered just to reply...

To offer another - what seems to be alternative view - on the subject: I have been engaging in unprotected sex with working girls since around 2001/2 so 12-ish years. I keep pretty good records and ive had unprotected sex with around 50 working girls, mostly one-offs but some multiple times, around 80 encounters in all Id say. I only see girls who offer unprotected sex. A girl offered it to me once and I was instantly addicted to that feeling. All of the girls bar around 5 were street workers in the London, UK area. In that time Ive had Gonnorreha 3 times and Thrush once.

The statistics Ive read/heard for HIV say through vaginal sex the odds are 500-1 if either party is positive , so actually much more risky than the "contrversial" poster said above. The stats suggest that if all 50 girls id slept with on those 80 occasions were HIV positive then I would still be quite unlikley to catch it. But I consider myself very lucky.

I wouldnt recommend doing bareback to either the girls or the punters. It feels great but so does injecting Heroin. Bareback sex is something I do which is like an addiction and has caused me a lot of pain in worry over the years. Ive taken PEP 3 times and spent weeks in agonising worry. But it doesnt really shock me when I see girls offer this service, it did when I first saw it years ago before I understood the odds, but the chances of them getting HIV from bareback vaginal sex are fairly low. What DOES shock me though is the people offering unprotected anal sex. The statistics for that are horrific: 1 in 3 chance for the recieving party if the giving party is HIV positive. It leads me to think that the girls and guys that offer receptive anal sex simply MUST be HIV positive or will be very soon.

To conclude: stay safe people, you can get away with it for a long time as I have but it could bite you at any moment. It could bite you the FIRST time you do it. The HIV drugs are fairly unpleasant and you dont want that in your life. Peace and bless you all.

PS. I am winding down from doing unprotected sex with working girls, I dont enjoy it as much as I used to, dare I say its getting boring. I would rather look for a loving relationship rather than just try to get inside every woman that breathes. I wouldnt recommend what Ive done with my life in the last 12 or 13 years to anyone. Stay safe.