How do you know if an ecort girl really likes you?

[sarahxxx]

It is really lame to be honest, nothing that would really cause a uproar.
In fact its so lame I cannot bring myself to post it

i think the intrigue is that you have mentioned it before and it obviously does matter to you, but above all that, it also seems to be causing you a problem with seeing girls.

So.. We are here to help, not mock!

Many of us, as you know, have been helped by others on these forums and that is part of what they are about, after all, not like you can talk to your neighbour about what we discuss here.

But, if you feel you wish to keep it private then you must do what you feel is right for you.

Sarah x x x

[Freddo]

It is really lame to be honest, nothing that would really cause a uproar.
In fact its so lame I cannot bring myself to post it

i think the intrigue is that you have mentioned it before and it obviously does matter to you, but above all that, it also seems to be causing you a problem with seeing girls.

So.. We are here to help, not mock!

Many of us, as you know, have been helped by others on these forums and that is part of what they are about, after all, not like you can talk to your neighbour about what we discuss here.

But, if you feel you wish to keep it private then you must do what you feel is right for you.

Sarah x x x

Would you believe it is something that I would not class as out of the ordinary.
It is French Kissing

I also avoid the ladies that say at discretion and only ever go with ladies that give me posative answers. It is strange how many ladies say they will right up until they have your money then turn away.
I did have some regular ladies but one has retired and two have moved away both too far for me to go to visit.
So that is why my punting life is on a downward spiral should have done something about it while they were still around instead of staying where it was good.
If i had it would have reduced my visits to them I knew about two of the ladies and one just dissappeared found her when I searched her name on AW she had gone abroad

[EliteAnnalise]

I always find it amazing when an Escort won't kiss a man because they say it's 'too intimate', but will happily do OWO or CIM. For me, I like to think I specialise in the GFE; full french kissing, cuddling, intimacy, the works! I know it's what I do best and I'll turn down any role play or fetish booking in favour of a GFE date, because it's what I really enjoy. I can't say I know why these ladies won't french kiss you Freddo. I've taken the time to make sure that everything on my AW 'likes' list is everything that I genuinely enjoy and do offer. There are some genuine ladies out there Freddo, don't be disheartened! x

[sarahxxx]

Would you believe it is something that I would not class as out of the ordinary.
It is French Kissing

I also avoid the ladies that say at discretion and only ever go with ladies that give me posative answers. It is strange how many ladies say they will right up until they have your money then turn away.

That is sad.... but you are right, it can be a challenge, like Annalise said

I always find it amazing when an Escort won't kiss a man because they say it's 'too intimate', but will happily do OWO or CIM.

Some girls are even happy to give a guy a good rimming yet still will not French kiss.

I have always offered French kissing as part of the meeting and never charged for any extras, but I do not do anything that is not on my enjoys list and do not feel the need to try and make another £10 out of guys for something they will assume is included.

Everything I do is at my discretion and really does relate to the clients personal hygeine, manners and attitude

Good luck with that one Freddo

Sarah x x x

[bp95]

rodtheman37 - tread carefully, chap. For a period of 6 months last year I saw an escort who has an amazing character and personality, but in terms of being physical with me made me feel very underappreciated and pretty useless. Saw her in total about 18 or 19 times (at £150 an hour...), and about half of those times did absolutely nothing physical with her at all. She'd always tout via email if I hadn't got in touch for a week or so, and I tricked myself into thinking that's because she liked me as a person and I would have really been happy to just be friends with her, but I also found myself competing with the feedback she'd had from other people regarding her services and was really disappointed when I didn't get that. After a while, even if I tried to kiss her or give her a shoulder rub I'd be met with frigidity. But kept going back because I thought maybe next time she'll want to do something, and if not - well we're becoming friends, right?

Told her over Christmas that I didn't think I could this any more because I wanted to be friends and that I was coming to the conclusion that she wasn't at all, and she said "But we are friends! I like it this way because it means there are no complications." Then I asked if she'd be happy to be a friend without the physical privileges and got no reply at all. End of the relationship right there.

Thing that hurts is that there was stuff about our time together that you really couldn't fake, I know she liked my company. But I think she found I was an easier person to extract £150 a pop from without any real effort on her behalf. Things I would have let her get away with (cancelling at the last minute) if we were mates, but now I know I was only ever a client to her, make me feel as though as an individual I was very unimportant to her.

Ask her if she'll see you outside of escorting, even if it's just as a friendship, and you will get your answer... Truth hurts but it sets you free and all that.

Serious question, and I don't mind if the answer shows me up to be a fluffy walkover - how many times have you other guys gone to see an escort and had nothing physical happen at all?

[bp95]

That can be a problem finding a escort that tries not to rip you off. I never realised how many escorts are like rouge car mechanics.

They have a lot in common both do half a job, charge you for extras, give you a time and then change it.

YES!!!

If an escort is doing her job properly EVERY guy who visits her should feel that she really likes him. Its what we are paid for.

Do you think it's right that a bloke should feel upset if nothing physical happens, even if you've given him an hour of your time and he's still had fun, but not the fun he was expecting when he walked through the door? I just think that has the danger of making the feeling of friendship be confusingly real, and it's probably better in some ways for it to feel more like a business transaction than the girlfriend experience.

EDIT - I will say though, if you can crest that "does she like me?" thing, and find a good girl that doesn't just chat the hour away, and also realise that the meetings are what they are, then you can have some great fun What am I trying to say? Whether or not she cares about you, chances are she'll feel the same about all the other clients. Don't try to compete with them. Have the fun you want to have if she's happy to give it.

[EliteAnnalise]

Saw her in total about 18 or 19 times (at £150 an hour...), and about half of those times did absolutely nothing physical with her at all. After a while, even if I tried to kiss her or give her a shoulder rub I'd be met with frigidity. But kept going back because I thought maybe next time she'll want to do something, and if not - well we're becoming friends, right?

I'm confused, why did you keep going back to this lady and paying her £150 when she wouldn't have sex with you? You could have saved yourself a lot of bother, money and heartache by simply not going back, or trying someone else!

[bp95]

I know! It was mental really. It's because I thought that the /lack/ of sexual contact meant she wanted to become friends. But then again I kept reading a bit of feedback that had been left for her, and her response to it, which made it sound like she'd had a very, very good time with another client and I wanted to know how to make her feel that way too. So it's like wanting the opposite ends of the scale at the same time.

I guess I always felt it was my fault rather than hers that she'd seemed unenthusiastic about me and that nothing happened but I liked her and really did want to have sex and make her feel good too. Kept going back because I wanted to work out what I had to do to make it happen.

Now I know that if, after dropping £150 or whatever the fee is on the table, if it doesn't happen then it's a bad meeting and you shouldn't go back. You're just setting yourself up for getting hurt if you do.

[HORNN]

[quote='EliteAnnalise' pid='35014' dateline='1329728592']
I always find it amazing when an Escort won't kiss a man because they say it's 'too intimate', but will happily do OWO or CIM. For me, I like to think I specialise in the GFE; full french kissing, cuddling, intimacy, the works! I know it's what I do best and I'll turn down any role play or fetish booking in favour of a GFE date, because it's what I really enjoy. I can't say I know why these ladies won't french kiss you Freddo. I've taken the time to make sure that everything on my AW 'likes' list is everything that I genuinely enjoy and do offer. There are some genuine ladies out there Freddo, don't be disheartened! x
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me too, babes.xxx love french kissing..x turns the light in my belly.x

[EliteAnnalise]

Hmm, I can't help thinking that she was just taking advantage of you. I wouldn't associate her lack of sexual desire as some kind of gesture of friendship, rather she was trying to get away with doing as little as possible for her money and unfortunately, you were too nice to do anything about it.