Dinner Date Rates?

[Nick Meanswell]

I suppose there are two ways of looking at it. Dinner followed by a bit of fun makes it seem more like a real date. But on the other hand if you going on a dinner date with someone you know you get on with why not. The only issue might be the risk of stepping over boundaries.

I know I would happily pay Kate's rate for the opportunity of a nice meal with fun easygoing conversation, and at that price I would forgo the fun bit - I would be quite nice to know that we could enjoy a bit of cerebral conversation, but knowing that if I/we wanted more there is a cost involved.

Kate's also right that from an economic point of view it's not particularly cost effective to have a cheaper dinner if there are better offers in the wings. On the other hand I suppose from the escort's perspective, and looking at it from a purely commercial point of view, it could be treated as a loss-leader to entice someone who was a bit shy and wanted to sound out the ground as it were before committing himself.

It almost comes back to the other discussion about having a drink with a potential client to sound each other out, but at least with this the escort isn't completely losing out financially.

[KWinchester50]

£75 for just a dinner date or £350 for the dinner time and 2 hours private time.

I take it then that you offer a reduced "social" rate Kate? My view is the WG is offering the service so she is entitled to charge whatever she likes. I have been with ladies that offer a reduced rate, ones that charge the same and even one who didn't charge for the meal part at all. The later one always make me feel a tad on the guilty side but then again, I didn't ask for it to be that way and am willing to pay. On the flip side I've also played "full price" but the lady in question has to be someone I really want to see :-)

[sarahxxx]

Well my situation is such that I'm in London alone and looking not only for "fun" but also some good company :-) I like to eat out and I like sex, so why not combine the two?

I understand that, my partner would never eat in a restaurant on his own. butt hat does not mean I would be happy if he came home and said he had been out to dinner with an escort.

Sarah

[Nick Meanswell]

Well my situation is such that I'm in London alone and looking not only for "fun" but also some good company :-) I like to eat out and I like sex, so why not combine the two?

I understand that, my partner would never eat in a restaurant on his own. butt hat does not mean I would be happy if he came home and said he had been out to dinner with an escort.

Sarah

Surely the whole point of an escort is that you wouldn't go home and when your wife says "Did you have a nice time dear" respond "I had a fantastic time, I paid to take a really sexy girl to dinner"

[monty69]

I don't do dinner dates, just something I never felt comfortable with.

However, should I do them then it would really depend on the "dinner". If his idea of a dinner date is taking me to a harvester with a travel lodge on the side then he would have to pay the full rate.

Sarah

You'll be lucky if you find a Harvester next to a Travelodge, Sarah, a third rate Motorway Cafe would be closer to the mark.

Premier Inn / Beefeater combinations work well I think, at least the beds are comfy and the staff are always very pleasant.

I couldn't agree more re Travelodge - you would have to really desperate to stay in one of them. The worst bit is they are comparable in price with a Premier Inn or Holiday Inn Express, both of which are in another league.

Down near Havant there is a Harvester next to the Travelodge. How do I know? I have been there for a few days. The accommodation was basic but the Harvester shocked me as it clearly was a rare beasty in that it was well run and the food was excellent for what it offered. Dare I say it but I could recommend it.

[English Kate]

I don't do dinner dates, just something I never felt comfortable with.

However, should I do them then it would really depend on the "dinner". If his idea of a dinner date is taking me to a harvester with a travel lodge on the side then he would have to pay the full rate.

Sarah

You'll be lucky if you find a Harvester next to a Travelodge, Sarah, a third rate Motorway Cafe would be closer to the mark.

Premier Inn / Beefeater combinations work well I think, at least the beds are comfy and the staff are always very pleasant.

I couldn't agree more re Travelodge - you would have to really desperate to stay in one of them. The worst bit is they are comparable in price with a Premier Inn or Holiday Inn Express, both of which are in another league.

Ha there is one in Cheltenham by J11 of the M5. Actually the Travelodge there is ok. Not all travelodges are horrible, the newer ones are fine. It's the old ones that are horrible. That is their problem, they are inconsistant.

[lucy7]

I do loads of wine dine and sixty nines as I cheekliy call them.
Set rate is stated for the time booked for.
It is up to the gentleman to do what he wishes in that time.
I am pretty loose with time on those though.

I was booked for a long meet the other week, a lunch time one.
I kept on encourging him back to my place but he wished to stay out.
He said he enjoyed being seen with me and the chatting.
Fair enough.
That was a meet booked for 8 hours, but I was with him 10.
I bet the total sex time was only 2 hours.

Lucy

[curvy crumpet]

I tend to go for dinner with a lot of my regular clients and only charge a flat rate of 300 which is two hours of dinner and two hours of fun time

[lucy7]

I have been ill with some sort of cold bug recently and have just back tracked all the appointments I have had to cancel over the last ten days.
Five of them were the wine dine and sixty nine types, all but one on a lunch time.

I seem to of just evolved to do these type of meetings in one way, I never set my stall out to do things in that way at all.

I know a lot of blokes on forums have a attitude that they would never pay a lady her hourly rate just to "watch her eat" but they are usually the types who are very set in their own opinion to what the paid sex scene is all about.

What one gentleman wants out of meeting up with a naughty lady can be very different to the nexts.
Some guys love to be seen out with a lady, they enjoy the conversation, the banter, the flirting etc, and the fact they know when they take us back to our/their place the sex is guaranteed!

I adore these type of meetings as I am very social.
I actually could class them as harder work in one way than pure sex meets.
You have to very mentally on the ball during these meets, you can not switch off for one minute and have to recall things from the previous times.

I have had good reviews from these type of meetings and they have tempted some of my regular guys who never would of dreamed of taking a lady out on a wine dine and sixty nine to do them with me.

I never feel I rip anyone off on these types of meetings ever, as they are the ones who request them.
I am however quite mindful of the fact that some guys I see could not afford that price so I will on odd times then invite them out for lunch at my expense, time and food wise.
Call it good customer relations or call it just doing something because I want to.

Lucy