what gives you the right

[Nick Meanswell]

It seems to me when a guy is as intrusive as this there is a basic betryal of the transactional agreement you have both made. What he buys when he hands over his money is a fantasy - if thats the case why on earth does he think he has a right to buy into the every last detail of your life. It is probably a good job I am male and not a wg because in your shoes Tink i would be tempted to make up a detailed life to scare the willies out of him - eg my father is a mafia boss, my partner does not know but would kill anyone who had sex wih me (and works for a phone company and can trace mobile numbers), i am distraught cos the baby puked over this dress before i came out, and i am so annoyed i could rip someones nuts off cos i got a speeding fine through the post this morning.

Oh I love it Hicky, it would be great to do just that, then film it and put the results up on YouTube!