men and strap ons; whats in it for the lady?

[monty69]

Good point Tom!!

[DivineMissG]

This thread is giving me evil, sadistic, wretched thoughts...

Definitely would be a massive power-trip for me... I've never done it... I'm afraid if I start exploring that Domme side in a serious way, then I'll never be a psychologist! Any BDSM orientated play in my bookings is very, very mild.

[MichelleSins]

I am surprised at some of the responses - So many people seem to think that Strapon Fun has to be Dom orientated, but it's not. Sorry if I gave the impression that it is.
Strapon fun can be gentle play too. Sensually teasing the male G-Spot, teasing and stimulating. When I've used a Strapon and then bought someone to completion then I've always found that a guy will cum loads more than from just having straight sex. Sure I don't need to explain why, if so then I think you need to read some books!!!
Yu don't just go ramming a Strapon in (unless requested!!!) Plenty of lube, and gently ease it in...
So to those of you that have said - Never. Not Me. Don't like the thought of it etc is like trying to get a someone to eat something they say they don't like before they put it in their mouths!!!

[English Kate]

That connects me to the other problem I have with it Michelle. If a guy is bent over my bed, even if you put a towel under him, somewhere along the line he's going to shoot over my bed and leave a deposit. Yak! It's messy all round.

[Tom Tanner]

..... is like trying to get a someone to eat something they say they don't like before they put it in their mouths!!!

Now that's a situation that I'm entirely familiar with, Michelle!

[fetishbootslut]

I am surprised at some of the responses - So many people seem to think that Strapon Fun has to be Dom orientated, but it's not. Sorry if I gave the impression that it is.
Strapon fun can be gentle play too. Sensually teasing the male G-Spot, teasing and stimulating. When I've used a Strapon and then bought someone to completion then I've always found that a guy will cum loads more than from just having straight sex. Sure I don't need to explain why, if so then I think you need to read some books!!!
Yu don't just go ramming a Strapon in (unless requested!!!) Plenty of lube, and gently ease it in...
So to those of you that have said - Never. Not Me. Don't like the thought of it etc is like trying to get a someone to eat something they say they don't like before they put it in their mouths!!!

Agree with what michelle has put about strap on fun and also I love doing strap on fun with girls too.

[simo22]

Agree with what michelle has put about strap on fun and also I love doing strap on fun with girls too.
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Forgive me for asking but is this done doggy position or sometimes missionary at all?
The reason I ask is because I have never 'been done' missionary despite me looking for an escort that will. I can only find ladys who strap on from behind. Am I being particularly stupid here????????

[fetishbootslut]

Agree with what michelle has put about strap on fun and also I love doing strap on fun with girls too.

Forgive me for asking but is this done doggy position or sometimes missionary at all?
The reason I ask is because I have never 'been done' missionary despite me looking for an escort that will. I can only find ladys who strap on from behind. Am I being particularly stupid here????????
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I would say it you want it done missionary (ie you on your back) you would have to stick your legs up so your bum hole would be easier to get to but I suppose from behind has always been easier but whatever one likes.

[simo22]

I would say it you want it done missionary (ie you on your back) you would have to stick your legs up so your bum hole would be easier to get to but I suppose from behind has always been easier but whatever one likes.
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hi thanks for this. the only thing i could come up with was that they didnt want to look at my ugly mush as they drove home !!!! lol

[Ana_X]

hi thanks for this. the only thing i could come up with was that they didnt want to look at my ugly mush as they drove home !!!! lol

99% of my clients are told to wear leather/rubber hoods for that very reason.