What makes me decide one escort over another.

[simo22]

Great Post, WOW say it how it is hunni!
I wonder would you pick me???
(bet all girls on ere sayin the same hehe)

Thanks for this, of course I would except we are too far apart and you dont escort and I probably couldn't afford you but apart from these trivias its a definate booking. simon

[AndyParker]

Hi, are you the Andy Parker from up my way....Leeds?

Lucy

Yes indeed ... the one and the same Lucy

I might have known you'd pop up on here too ... you beat to every forum

[simo22]

Merry CHristmas LEEDS.
i used to work on wellington street and went out with a girl in holbeck, can i join the leeds sub forum group of lucy & andy?

[Freddo]

Merry CHristmas LEEDS.
i used to work on wellington street and went out with a girl in holbeck, can i join the leeds sub forum group of lucy & andy?

I think you have to submit a application in writing to Lucy

[Freddo]

Great Post, WOW say it how it is hunni!
I wonder would you pick me???
(bet all girls on ere sayin the same hehe)

I would pick you Heather but there again research has never been my strong point

[Passione Girls]

Very interesting post, actually one of the best!!!
Keep writing!!

[simo22]

Very interesting post, actually one of the best!!!
Keep writing!!

thank you very much for kind words. careful though else my head wont fit my new christmas bobble hat. :-}

[britains porn stars]

That has got to help a load of guys get it right, cracking post mate !!


There seems to be lots discussions about field reports, ratings and feedbacks so i thought i'd list what makes me decide when i can afford to treat myself with a little slice of heaven.

1/The price has to be affordable. I cant wont pay anymore than £2 per minute so £120 per hour max for my wallet. Sorry to all those charging more, nothing personal and I am certain you are worth every penny but short of a lottery win we wont be meeting. Much the same reason why my car isnt a ferrari.

2/ Location, she has to be within a 30 miles of me because of petrol cost and time going awol from work and or mrs. even a 1 hour visit is really 3 hours there and back.

3/ My taste, sometimes i want tall & slim, sometimes redhead, sometimes bbw.etc etc

4/ Girl has to have a face pic for me. The more photos the better in her gallery. Though have to say, it is always interesting to see what girl is wearing doing expression posing etc and whats in background.

5/ Likes list. I always study this to see whats available or better still what girl will not do.

6/ Profile advert. I like the girl to be chatty, giving some insight, some details, some of her rules, reinforcing her likes list etc. She has done the hard bit by getting me to her profile page as oppossed to everyone elses, now sell me with the above points. Mouseclickers for me are 2 or 3 lines of 'youve seen the rest now try the best' or 'best bj in uk' 'i know what a man wants'.

7/ Feedback. prefer girl to have some but not loads. between 5ish upto 50ish is fine for me. I always read them and look for a spread of dates and people.

8/ Field reports. Fantastic invention. it really helps me to cross t's and dot i's and confirm i am barking up the right tree.

9/ Email reply. I try to send a 'hi {girls name}, how are you doing, seen your profile and would like to meet up for an hour please' type of opening message with some details of what i am like, what i am after, when suitable etc. If i get a 1 line reply, or a short on personality reply, or automated response i reply saying thanks but no thanks. If the reply somehow reflects my opening message (chatty, answering my questions etc) then I phone.

10/ Hi its simon, may i speak to {girls name} can you talk now? We then have a quick chat re emails etc and confirm postcode, parking arrangements, etc. If though the girl is short or off hand with me then it is a deal breaker even at this stage.

I am careful because money is tight so really try to get my meeting right. Sorry if i have banged on about this subject but thought it might help. I dont know if i am typical with my decisions. I do know that these things i do have come about over the years i have been a punter on aw only because i have been burned in the past.
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[AndyShep]

This has been the best post I have seen so far.

I haven't been on a punt yet, so I am actually quite nervous about it, especially about the call to request the booking.
But this post is very insightful-but-simple, which has already helped me relax.

Thanks a lot for your post mate !

[EliteAnnalise]

Good post, an insight to how one gentleman chooses his fillies.

With regard to not having more than 50 feedbacks....
I have 277 feedbacks on adultwork, if I had a feedback for each meeting I have ever done for money it would be sky high.
Not all book via there, and not all leave feedback if they do.

One lady on my local forum has 16/18 feedbacks (cant recall which now) she has been an escort for 11 years.
Probably the most well known and highest rated on PN escort in Yorkshire ever.
So with out spelling it out, you can imagine if she used adultwork as much as a lot of us do her number would be VERY high.
You may miss out on a gem of a girl by thinking a high feedback number is not a good thing.

Lucy

You have a very good point here Lucy and one I have blogged about when I hit 100 on my feedback. On average I see between 3 and 10 guys a week. I can't see more than that as I also run my own business and have family commitments. However I have had one client who told me that I was lucky he came to see me, as I had more feedback than he would normally choose from, but he was being impulsive.

He was quite shocked to find that I had only seen one man before him that day and that I wasn't seeing anyone else. He was shocked that I had such a nice apartment and that I wasn't 'worn out' with all the constant shagging I must have been doing. With reference to him, I doubt I have changed his mind, as he seemed quite opinionated and likely thinks I am the exception to the rule, but the fact is, if you do the maths, it's really not that much when you divide 104 by 730 days, which is how long I have been working for. Of course I do see gentleman that do not book me via the system, but still...

The level of feedback tells you nothing, as it is only one method of booking and rarely the only method used.

I totally agree. The majority of my clients prefer to call me and even though many do find me via AW, they rarely submit booking requests. I have asked why and I'm told it's because it's much quicker to just give me a call as they are often browsing at work/home and there is more chance of getting caught if they take the time to use the booking system. It's easier to make a note of your number and call when they can be more discreet. Plus, if a booking is short notice, clients feel they have more chance of getting an appointment if they call.