Make Up - On or Off!

[English Kate]

I want to make a huge apology to everyone - it was never my intention to offend anyone. After the comments about my post - I have steered clear of the forum for a while. However I really hate it if if people think ill of me.

Undoubtedly I said something which touched a raw nerve. I have nothing but the greatest of respect for all girls (in fact everyone) on here. I go to a lot of trouble on my meetings to be as charming and likeable as I can be, and to treat everyone with the kindness and respect I feel they deserve, so if my turn of phrase wasn't appropriate or ill-judged please please forgive me.

I do hope you'll forgive me for my lack of judgement, and give me a chance to redeem myself!

The concern I have is that you don't seem to have absorbed anything from the experience or learn from it. If you truely don't know why people got annoyed then you will likely just keep making the same mistakes again.

Let me help you

A woman wears make up for very many reasons, some of which stem from childhood, where she would have watched her Mum put it on. Then there is fashion and style. We all need to be 'ourselves' and for some it is about creating an identity. It can make you feel good, sexy, sophisticated or younger, whatever the reason I doubt there are many women that put make up on because they think they look pig ugly without it.

Your comment was very black and white. It suggested that women wear make up often because they have to or they will shock the life out of the client and perhaps you believe yourself that girls with make up really are unattractive without it. This is not always the case and it is insulting to think that any man would imagine women wear make up because they would not be able to get a man without it. I would say most women wear make up for themselves and if they don't, it is because they don't want to, as simple as that.

Please consider that your words have an impact on how we view you. Please also be aware that you may have met some of the girls on here (even if you do not realise it) and you could be offending someone directly. Also, don't try and tell us what we are thinking, feeling, believing etc, as we know better than you do, although of course you are welcome to say what you think, but don't offer it as a fact, as your opinion can not be a fact. Your experiences can only be few compared to ours and the people you select to see are likely to be of a 'type' and not a good general cross section of Escorts, so therefore not necessarily 'typical'.

Start your thoughts with entrances such as, 'I am led to believe', 'I would consider', 'I wonder if' etc, so they are showing a thought process that perhaps need confirming instead of giving the answer, when talking about Escorts, as let's face it you are not a woman or an Escort and can only imagine what it is like to be one or talk about a 3rd party experience.

I hope that this response is helpful and not condescending, as I certainly am not intending to be. You are welcome to be part of the community and perhaps by understanding us better on here, it will help you understand us better in the flesh too.