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#21
(19-10-2011, 22:38)Poshprat Wrote: Speaking as one who on principal wants to ensure that the girl I'm with enjoys things as much as me, I would expect to be told what to do to ensure that I am doing what gives her pleasure.

We are not all the same, if we were why would greedy people like me keep seeing different girls - it's because each meeting is a new opportunity to improve my skills and learn, but if the girl doesn't tell me and just pretends she is enjoying what I am doing, how will I ever learn to be better?

In a sense if you girls don't take the opportunity to educate us guys when you have the opportunity, you're doing a disservice to each other.

Lol... In a way, we are... Yes... But there is just no telling some clients... Wink
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#22
I am up for any lessons on offer Gia!
This is one old dog who is only too happy to learn new tricks!

Sometimes I really feel for you girls - just as well you all have such a good sense of humour!
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#23
I really dislike girls who fake an orgasm. Why do they do it? Presumably to stop me trying to make them orgasm which amounts to stopping me having fun. On the other hand when a girl does come it is one of the best parts of the punt for me: giving pleasure gives me great pleasure. On average the girl has an orgasm in about 50 per cent of my punts: the very best experience (which has happened only with one girl) is when we both come together during intercourse.
Girls: do you like a client to try and make you come, or does it not matter?
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#24
(29-10-2011, 17:25)cassit Wrote: I really dislike girls who fake an orgasm. Why do they do it? Presumably to stop me trying to make them orgasm which amounts to stopping me having fun. On the other hand when a girl does come it is one of the best parts of the punt for me: giving pleasure gives me great pleasure. On average the girl has an orgasm in about 50 per cent of my punts: the very best experience (which has happened only with one girl) is when we both come together during intercourse.
Girls: do you like a client to try and make you come, or does it not matter?

Yes, I really enjoy it when a client is aware of what I am feeling... Whether I have had an orgasm or not... For me it's very rare that I don't come... Having said that... You cant always teach a dog new tricks... And sometimes we just have to fake it... There are lots of reasons why we do this... Some men aren't as worried about it as you and they don't like to be told the truth if they're not floating your boat. Smile
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#25
I am bothered about it and would feel cheated if a woman faked her orgasm
you can tell if it is real or not
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#26
(18-10-2011, 23:56)Hicky Wrote: You are asking questions about if men are sensitive enough to notice what goes on around us. can I answer that with a question of my own? How many men have you meet ever who you think are sensitive and were they good actors in other parts of their lives too?

The married ones/attached ones must be good actors in the fact that they go back home and 'act' as if nothing is different from the time they went out.
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#27
Unfortunately yes sometimes we have to fake it, as some men just have no idea. No idea why woman tell them they are any good at anything or do not show them the right way... hmmmm perplexed. But majority of the time yes i do orgasm naturally, i always cum first the client can wait Smile
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#28
I can't fake it. My brain won't let me. If they ask, 'did you cum then?' and I didn't quite manage it I will say, 'no, not quite'. I also direct fingers and introduce toys etc. Lol I'm the one who feels cheated if I don't have an orgasm, so I will do all I can to make sure it does happen. I love it when the doubters make me gush and I will say with a smile on my face, 'Do you believe me now?'. In truth I hate being doubted and it makes me cross. I don't care who they have seen before me, or what experience they have had previously. Don't tar me with the same brush!!!!

Now... where were we? Smile
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#29
Its surprising how everyone is so different, ive known only 3 girls, out of about 55 ive ever been with, who orgasm genuinely very easily and frequently, as in - i dont need to do anything what so ever other than sit/lay back and maintain an erection for them to get off with. Feels great without a condom too, can feel her juices dribble out around my cocks length while shes fucking me, its like wow she is SO turned on!

Or like when shes going really fast/hard and grinding back and forth causing me to climax, trying to hold it back SO much while shes saying shes almost there, then pop... (o shit!) thinking for her to please orgasm quick before it starts going soft. She orgasms, GOOOAL!!! lol. Love those moments.

With many girls though, it seems impossible to get them to orgasm.
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#30
As stated there are unfortunately some clients out there who just do not push the right buttons no matter how much you try and direct them. There are clients out there who assume we all like to be fucked like a pornstar who likes to thrust their fingers so far up your fanny not considering what damage they are doing no matter how much you protest. Do you know how often a client actually bites down on my clit and pulls it up, can you imagine the pain that i have to go through and even after shrieking and mentioning that it hurts they continue to do so as they feel that they have paid for our time and for the opportunity to do these things to us.

hence why i also do not offer A levels to first time clients as you can not just go charging in there like a bull in a china shop.

Gentlemen these things need to be considered and as embarrassed as i am to say this that there is the rare occassion where you have to fake it as no matter how much you try and show or teach certain types of clients they are not interested in knowing. you can not always guarantee a female orgasm the only way my clients know that i am enjoying it is by how wet i get and my yawns afterwards believe it or not i tend to want to sleep after good sex.
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