Advice Needed!!

[SassyAnn]

I know everyone has their own way of doing things, but I prefer to count the money in front of them, if it's someone new. Just in case they are short, they know you can't have pocketed any and be demanding more from them. I make a joke about it and just say 'I'm checking you haven't overpaid'. Just keep it light-hearted.

[Nick Meanswell]

I am amazed at how many different ways there are to make payment in a discreet way. The other day I was with a girl in Glasgow and I got the dosh out and put it on the table. She immediately said "Put that away, you can give it to me discreetly as you leave", which seemed incredibly trusting for someone who claimed to have been working in the industry as dominatrix for 25 years!

[English Kate]

I don't like taking the money at the end for various reasons. One of them being that my brain cells seem to go fall asleep after each orgasm, with the length of the nap extending by each orgasm I have and the other one being that it feels more sordid to ask for it at the end and lastly they can then turn around and say... I only came once and I wanted to come twice, so I didn't really get what I wanted so I'm going to dock you by £20 etc. Bollocks to that!!!

Pardon my French!

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

I agree with counting the money in front of the client, for exactly the same reasons as Ann states.

I would however refuse to drink anything from a client unless I have seen him opening it. You just don't know .................

If it is a lengthy booking you could take along a bottle of your own, giving your own reasons for not taking his - if it is a short booking either do without or pour yourself glass of water - yes you pour it - unless you can see him pouring it.

These are all safety precautions that should be taken in all outcalls. Also when you arrive I would be having a swatch round the room to see that he does not have a webcam or similar set up to film your actions.

[English Kate]

I have to admit I always take my own tea bag with me. I never thought of it as a precaution, but I only like a particular one. If we're both drinking from the same hot water, then it is pretty safe I would say.

I could count how many times I have counted the money in front of the client on my one hand and it is usually because they have asked me to. I have only once been underpaid and when I sent a text to the chap who had already left, he was very apologetic and brought the money to my apartment while I was out and put it through the letter box in an envelope.

I suppose it could be more luck than judgement, but I do always get the money first (unless long time reg) and it's not failed me.

Again for the same reasons I prefer to get the money first, I prefer not to count it infront, although I do scan for how many 20s are in my hand and counting to 7 is not that difficult, so it is fairly easy to give it a brief check without having to literally count in front of them.

I guess we all have our quirks and ways of doing things.

[monty69]

Counting the money in front of the client should never be an issue. If he has given the right money, he shouldnt be offended, especially if he isnt known to you. Whenever I go on a visit, I hand it over as soon as possible to get it over with so I can then get on with getting to know the lady. Not had a complaint yet.

My piece of advice Loucy is to be yourself. You know how you greet someone normally, why should it be different for a meet. It is what happens after that you might need to work on if inexperienced (or not as the case may be!)

[English Kate]

For me it's not that it is an issue as much as trying to detract from the fact that it is a financial arrangement. Anything I can do to make it flow more naturally I will. I've never had anyone tell me not to count it, it's my choice, but as I say, as most people tend to pay in 20's, it's not exactly difficult to work out if it's a bit light or not and then I might just say, 'Ah I thought you were booking for an hour?'

[britains porn stars]

As we would say !! What about ya big lad !!! lol GC

As a relatively new escort to the scene, I need advice on how to greet a client when you arrive at their house/hotel. What is the escort etiquette??? LOL!!

[tinkerbell]

hi lou!!!!!!!!

[lucy7]

I would say that one out of every twenty five will give me the money before we get jiggy with it.
I have only once asked for the money before hand as he looked like he may not have it......
Most who know me, know where to put the money.
The new ones I always ask them to just pop it in my make up bag which is on the side in my kitchen/lounge area.
I do not count it when there are with me ever.

As to how do you meet anyone.
Just smile, be happy, chat away but listen too, make them feel comfortable, offer the gentleman a drink, ask him to sit down, sit down next to him and away you go.

No set way/format really to how to meet and greet your gentleman friend.
You will find your own little way of doing things in time.

All the best to you.
Lucy