Emotional detachment

[curvy crumpet]

As an escort we have to be any personal feelings or attachments we might form to one side to remain impartial or be affected by any feelings we might develop towards a client or clients.

Do you feel that it might transfer over to your personal life, do you feel you might be able to or do have a successfull personal relationship with a significant other?

[abcdef]

i dont love my OH & if i did have feelings for a client i wouldnt let them know

i keep my emotions deep

[curvy crumpet]

i dont love my OH & if i did have feelings for a client i wouldnt let them know

i keep my emotions deep

Do you really not love your OH?

I adore my OH, and am very much in love with him, which is probably why I am going to have to give escorting up soon, as I know the discussion is coming up.

I do have some emotional attachment to my regular clients i.e as in I care about them and they know they can approach me anytime about anything, even other girls to see.

I have put my trust in gentlemen before only to have my fingers burnt, now i am very selective with which clients I become friends with.

[abcdef]

Do you really not love your OH?

no i dont he asked me about 10yr ago to name 10 things i loved about him & i was stuck i said i would let him no later, he replied i can instantly say what i love about u without thinking about it & that he knew i would never have the deep feelings he has for me

if he asked me to stop escorting i would refuse i would rather live alone than not having their blessing

do i get emotionally attached to clients ? that i would never answer on a forum as it is private only to me

[English Kate]

I think having been single now for over a decade (mostly due to my own choice and will power) I do sometimes get a little overwhelmed by it all. I think if I was in a secure loving relationship it would not affect me so deeply, as all those needs that stir me would be looked after within the relationship, but at the same time I might find it hard to give 100% if I was truely in love.

It's really had to know unless the situation arises.

[Emily of Halifax]

I have a very stable happy relationship with my hubby(well most of the time). The job does not affect us I was escorting before we met he knew from the beginning what I did and accepted it.

One thing we purposely dont do is discuss the nitty gritty he asks how my day has been and if everything was ok there are some things that dont need discussing.

He would never ask me to stop as he knows that doing this has made me the person i am

[curvy crumpet]

I have a very stable happy relationship with my hubby(well most of the time). The job does not affect us I was escorting before we met he knew from the beginning what I did and accepted it.

One thing we purposely dont do is discuss the nitty gritty he asks how my day has been and if everything was ok there are some things that dont need discussing.

He would never ask me to stop as he knows that doing this has made me the person i am

We have an agreement that we never discuss my work and that is that, I ensure no questions arise.

Escorting has given me confidence and financial independence and I genuinely do enjoy it, so it is going to be a difficult decision to make as and when it arises.

I have been single for 4 years and never wanted a relationship as am quite happy with my life until I met him and knew what was missing.

[britains porn stars]

Hi Guy's , looking from my side i work with lot's of model's & model's that escort it would be soooo esay to fall for them!! But would it, could it work & it can be hard to have a steady girlfriend with doing this work .

[Nick Meanswell]

Can I put my perspective from the other side of the fence? It is very easy for guys to imagine that they are in love with a girl because lust is often confused with love in a guys eyes.

Personally I feel very protective towards the girls I meet. I hate to imagine them having anything other than good experiences. That's because I genuinely care about everyone I meet be they my clients in my professional world or escorts that I see in AW World.

I have to admit that on more than one occasion I have desperately wanted to have a closer friendship where I can feel free to email an escort I've met just to chat and check she's OK. I suppose I rather like those girls who display a vulnerability in their blogs, not so that I can exploit it, but so that I can offer friendly support - does that present a threat to the emotional detachment?

[English Kate]

Can I put my perspective from the other side of the fence? It is very easy for guys to imagine that they are in love with a girl because lust is often confused with love in a guys eyes.

Personally I feel very protective towards the girls I meet. I hate to imagine them having anything other than good experiences. That's because I genuinely care about everyone I meet be they my clients in my professional world or escorts that I see in AW World.

I have to admit that on more than one occasion I have desperately wanted to have a closer friendship where I can feel free to email an escort I've met just to chat and check she's OK. I suppose I rather like those girls who display a vulnerability in their blogs, not so that I can exploit it, but so that I can offer friendly support - does that present a threat to the emotional detachment?

I think it depends on how far you delve. I have one client who now calls me by my birth name, he even did it while we were on the bed together after a bit of a steamy session and it made my ears prick up, it felt a bit weird, but in all honesty he knows me so well now, it didn't feel wrong. Thankfully he is not at all insecure or needy and I don't feel like either of us will cross the line, as neither of us really wants to step over, but in the mean time we have a most glorious friendship blossoming.

I think the problems arise when the client is needy and harbouring plans for the furture, despite saying the opposite. Perhaps it is better to clear the air and be honest and then things can either be nipped in the bud or sorted out.