for the attached ladies

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Call me old fashioned but if I was in a relationship of any kind I would not be working as a prossie. In the same vein I would never be happy if someone I was with, in a relationship or marriage, ever saw a prossie or was unfaithful in any way. It would be a deal breaker for me. I remember many years ago my ex h was kissed by a female at a party and lets just say sparks flew. For some reason I dont have any problem being 'the other woman' though when working. Spose thats what makes us all different.

[Freddo]

Some interesting replies there
The one thing that seems to jump out of the page is that none of you could stand it if your partners went with a escort

[crystal denison]

id chop his nob off with a kichen knife lol

[SassyAnn]

I know. However, I'm not in a relationship so don't know how I would feel. I suppose it depends on the guy, as to my attitude.
I took a while for me to get my head around me being a prossie, so I don't think it would take much to be ok with 'my guy' seeing one.... but really don't know until I am in that situation.
I can't imagine being a prossie and being in a relationship - but it's funny how life turns out, and I would never say never!

[iluvjem]

I know. However, I'm not in a relationship so don't know how I would feel. I suppose it depends on the guy, as to my attitude.
I took a while for me to get my head around me being a prossie, so I don't think it would take much to be ok with 'my guy' seeing one.... but really don't know until I am in that situation.
I can't imagine being a prossie and being in a relationship - but it's funny how life turns out, and I would never say never!

I appreciatte I was in a relationship first which makes a difference, it's a journey we've done together and I couldn't imagine doing it without him. If I was single and an escort would I still look for a relationship, probably not, I'd probably find that a tough one so I can understand where you are coming from.

[lucy7]

I think it is very hard for anyone to truly understand how a husband/partner can "allow" his lady to do this type of thing unless they are walking in their shoes.
I clearly recall thinking at one time in our early Lucy and Hubby days "what sort of man would let his wife be a prozzie", well here I am many months later married to one such man!

I think it actually shows a great love and trust between the two people concerned to be able to get on with it without the guy getting freaked out or even jealous.
I know I slightly came in to this in a weird sort of way, but for us it works well.
My hubby knows I am "in like" and "in lust" with several or my gentleman callers, but that is where it finishes, the "in love" is exclusively for him!

Lucy

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Some interesting replies there
The one thing that seems to jump out of the page is that none of you could stand it if your partners went with a escort

Yes seems that way
Quite a lot of ladies up my way are swingers as well as escorts.
Their hubbys get their extra fix that way, but then the wife/partner is sort of around.
If it was done behind their back I think the carving knife would come out!

Lucy

[jayzee77]

I had always enjoyed the camming/chatting side of things, but never though there were any kind of openings and never knew where to look. Then there was a thread on ways to make money (if you were a full time mum) and web chat and phone lines were mentioned so i looked some up and applied after talking with hubby, One was a minimum of 10 hours a week, which i struggled with because of the kids, so i moved to a work as you can one and it was fine, mean while back on the full-time mum thread a AW was mentioned i looked at the site and didn't do anything i looked too complicated, but i went back a couple of months later and made a profile and added a few pictures, and private pictures.. by christmas i was ear my first pay out, so i tried a couple of times on cam and got £150 one morning, so thats where i started camming a lot, me and hubby did a joint profile but every one wanted just me so he said i could try on my own as long as i was open with everything i did with them and use protection....
so there we are.. wish i had found it when i was first pregnant! - main reason for doing it all.. needing the money after loosing over half our tax credits1

[tinkerbell]

to be fair, my boyfriend also does some pretty questionable things for a job, and in my opinion your relationship is yours to to make your own

make your own rules, make your relationship work for you

i wasted so much time of my lfe trying to run things by the book and to make sure it was perfect,...and it ended up in tears and now that im in a relationship where were honest and we know exactly what were both doing and were happy, its perfect, best relationship ive ever been in

[iluvjem]

AW was mentioned i looked at the site and didn't do anything i looked too complicated, but i went back a couple of months later and made a profile

I did the same thing! lol I only went back because someone I know who's been in adult industry since the 80's said it was really good and I should give it another go. glad I listened to her now lol

[sophieofyork]

'here's a dilemma:'

Now, i am not yet attached, so have never had to worry too much. Last time I was alnmost attached he found out before we were almost attached, and I promised to give up which i did.

I've recently startd seeing someone who is absolute potential boyfriend material. I don't want to give up escorting now though, but i'm worried if i tell him it won't happen. Where in the process of dating do you say 'oh by the way- i'm an escort'. Would it be terribly wrong to keep it a secret? I know relationships are based on trust and honestly- but i really don't want to mess this one up if I actually have a chance at something :S

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ps meant to add to the start of that:


(just pretend it says that!!)