21-05-2017, 13:42
(21-05-2017, 13:31)Ana_X Wrote: It is a job. If she wanted to hook up with random guys then 1) she probably wouldn't be with you, and 2) she sure as hell wouldn't be getting paid for it.
Accept it or move on.
But...she is hooking up with random guys. The prescence of money doesn't change the fact of what she is doing. I'm all for this line of work, it seems like a good income and has many benefits, and I think the stigma attached to it is incorrect. But when this crosses over with a serious LTR, I can't understand how anybody can make excuses for it. Some may say its not, but to me...she is cheating. Sure, she is not doing it for fun and is doing it for income, but really its still just as bad...she is sharing herself with tons of other men.
Maybe you're right about moving on. Its hard, because I've really grown to love her and everything was perfect...but if our relationship means that little to her that she doesn't see a problem with cheating on me for money then I guess I'm wasting my time.
Thanks.