when should a booking end?

[Tom30]

This is my view. As long as you enjoy what you do and dont hurt anyone, professionalism has no point. Id rather meet an escort who is herself than one who puts on a "professional" behaviour, its just so bland.

Thats just me though, obviously theres a lot of business men out there who appreciate a professional escort. Im no business man and never want to be.

[English Kate]

Tom I think you are getting the two things confused.

An amazing artist puts his heart, body and soul into his work, but he still has to keep to the brief.

[SassyAnn]

Just from reading the forums, it appears girls who have worked in parlours or who have been used to newspaper advertising are much more aware of the time. It doesn't mean they give any less or aren't fully into the job - just that it is an awareness they have developed.

I think Kate is right, you can't treat clients dramatically differently who pay you the same money. So if someone pays me for 2 or 3 hours, it's because I'm worth 2 or 3 hours. If someone only wants an hour, for whatever reason, then that's what they should receive. It could be that they have other appointments - very true for the guys who fit me into their working day!

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if i have to pick a guy up at the train station im much more aware of time

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then again if it was gerard butler i wouldnt let him go......

[English Kate]

if i have to pick a guy up at the train station im much more aware of time

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then again if it was gerard butler i wouldnt let him go......

Is that a footballer?

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This is my view. As long as you enjoy what you do and dont hurt anyone, professionalism has no point. Id rather meet an escort who is herself than one who puts on a "professional" behaviour, its just so bland.

Thats just me though, obviously theres a lot of business men out there who appreciate a professional escort. Im no business man and never want to be.

I don't really get what you are saying. I mean your ex girlfriend, did she have any structure to her bookings? Did she used to take the same money for whatever time was being asked for and just go with the flow? So if they paid for half an hour and it ran into 2 hours, she would just shrug and say, 'hey, it was fun!'.

No one can do that, or how would she have ever had time for you? For herself? Or be able to agree to any other bookings? She would just have to say, sorry I have a booking at 10am and it could go on for hours, so ring me back later and I'll let you know if I'm free then. You just can't do that.

What if a client has arranged to travel to see the Escort and he calls to say he is close by now and she is still with the last client (because she was having fun). How is he going to feel knowing she is not ready for him and that she was too busy enjoying another guy to prepare for him?

Is it fair to treat the second client in that way? I also don't understand why you consider being organised and mindful of other things, as lacking passion or drive/enthusiasm. When I'm with a client, for that set amount of time (that they have specified, not me). I am totally theres and totally intend to enjoy that time with them. My body is very responsive (I'm told this time and time again) and seems to orgasm without hesitation these days with the right touch. I'm certainly not clock watching and would be mortified if a client thought I was, but things do tend to come to a natural end and once everything has got to that point of cuddles and kisses, then it is often this point where the time is either coming to an end, or just past it by a few minutes and time to clean up.

One of the things I do hate is making bookings too close together. When I'm on tour I will sometimes give myself half an hour between bookings, but I find an hour is much easier to work with. That allows for some 'down time' so your body can come back down to earth and freshen up again and this is important too. You also need time to eat and drink, to keep energy levels up and surprisingly, there are often phone calls that need making and stuff that needs doing, like arranging for things to be fixed when they are faulty. Last week I had to change a light fitting, as it was old and broken, you couldn't keep the bulb in it's holding. I was really proud that with some advice off a client I was able to do that.

So... it's not like we just do Escorting, we have lots of different hats and some of us have other jobs too. Some of us are single and really looking forward to possibly the only sex we have had that day, but I wouldn't say that made us more passionate, as there are lots of things that make a good Escort and being professional about any job is a must, especially if you intend to do it over the long term and not just a short term thing, where you can burn yourself out and have no other responsibilities.

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oh no he's a actor from paisley dont want to break the rules of posting pics google him

[Tom30]

I know what you mean Kate, but its not what i meant.
For those examples youve given, i'll counteract it by what ive already said:
"If she can..."
meaning if she has no responsibilities such as kids to take care of, has no later arranged booking, basically she has no plans to do anything after seeing the client shes enjoying time with.

I remember one escort i booked for an hour. Now i know im no babe magnet or anything i didnt even have a fit-toned body at the time, and im no god in bed either, but as soon as she opened the door to me she looked sort of surprised asking if im an escort. Anyways, after an hour had elapsed i realised she mustve really liked my company, i ended up staying there for 7 hours (about 2 hours of chatting and the rest was sex), i got the strong impression that she really didnt mind if i wanted to stay but i had to go because... long story.

Times like that shows that there are escorts out there who 200% totally genuinely loves the whole experience, instead of offering just a transactional service which is commonly perceived and is one of the (not many) reasons i try to avoid seeing escorts. Sex where you both fancies the pants off each other is just out of this world. I struggle to keep it up if i can sense any hint that she doesnt fancy me, and im pretty good at seeing tell-tail signs of her pretending to act it out.

[English Kate]

I'm guessing she must have been quite young, as my life just woulldn't allow for that scenario to happen. In contrast I have met one client for an overnight without charging him, because I wanted to see him. I had developed a bit of a crush and needed to see if there was anything in it and he felt the same way. (He had already paid for one overnghter with me) but that was in a hotel and this time we were in my apartment.

I just couldn't take 7 hours out of my day like that though, not with having a son, I'd feel so guilty as I'm finding it hard to maintain 2 houses as it is.

I've spent quite a bit of time tidying the kitchen at home recently due to feeling guilty, as soon as I got back off tour I spent a few more hours in there, which is probably why I was so knackered last night.

I imagine she was single too? I'm not sure how an Escorts partner would feel about something like that.

[Tom30]

She was single, aged 27, working from a hotel room, only available at set times/dates of the week. Said she was a student, loved clubbing and dancing every weekend its probably how she got a fit toned body.

Its different when youre a mom, i know that.

If i was a dad, my body would go all pair shaped as id stop going to the gym, all my time would be spent at work and doing all things family stuff. Id probably have very little interest in sex, focus would be on making a good home.

[English Kate]

She was single, aged 27, working from a hotel room, only available at set times/dates of the week. Said she was a student, loved clubbing and dancing every weekend its probably how she got a fit toned body.

Its different when youre a mom, i know that.

If i was a dad, my body would go all pair shaped as id stop going to the gym, all my time would be spent at work and doing all things family stuff. Id probably have very little interest in sex, focus would be on making a good home.

I'm not sure how to take that Tom. You do understand that not all parents let themselves go and lose their labido, don't you? I became a dog on heat in my mid 30s and have never looked back, so that is when my sex life started.

Sounds to me like she had the hotel room, she had no other bookings, she enjoyed the company, end of.

When I was in Scotland I had a day with no clients (I was in the wrong neck of the woods entirely - you live and learn) so when the guy I had spent an overnighter with when I first arrived sent me a text, I asked him to show me round and we spent the day together. I admit, if I had bookings I would not have done that, but it was lovely to spend the day with him and yes we had sex after dinner (which he bought) as it was a nice way to end the day.