WGs and relationships

[Trinity-Belle]

Just wondering... if are a WG and you are in a relationship... did your partner start off as a client?

This follows on from a number of recent threads on various forums where guys have professed undying love for escorts who they are paying for sex and even gone so far as suggesting that they would want to enter into a relationship with the working girl they are seeing.

Most people seem to feel that this is an unrealistic proposition, but I just wonder whether it does happen?

[Trinity-Belle]

Just to be clear.... for the guys, I don't want to know whether or not your partner is a working girl, just whether or not you used to be her client!

[sarahxxx]

Two people getting together and staying together is hard enough but WG+Client=Rollercoaster. Many relationships work on the basis that the female does not know her partner is a punter, how many would be happy to be with a man that was a punter?

Sarah x x x

[iluvjem]

I am a married lady and no my partner was most certainly not a punter. I was engaged before I started in the adult industry and that was on phones. Only been escorting 2 years...

I would never go with a client but then I cant say I meet the sort of men that would interest me.. Escorting doesn't seem to attract many Alternative guys? Not that I'm looking just saying!!! lol

[Trinity-Belle]

Escorting doesn't seem to attract many Alternative guys?

Maybe because serious Alt guys are all in the scene?

[Archer33]

Everything is possible,I have a friend who married escort girl 15 years ago! Last time i so him he told me they have 2 kids
But ofcourse she stop with escorting 15 years ago...

Me Personally i do not think so,but again you never know lol "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get."

And i only payed for escort 2 times in my life i m new to this whole thing lol

[sarahxxx]

But ofcourse she stop with escorting 15 years ago...

That would help the situation, but did he stop being a punter if that is how he met her? if he was not a punter it does not fall under the same situation.

If a girl fall for a punter there are many dilemmas, but here are the main two that will rock the boat.

1. Is he happy for her to carry on working? Will he not worry that as she was the type of girl to start a relationship with a client that it will not happen again.

2. Is she happy for him to carry on visiting other girls and maybe go off with them? After all, he must be irresistible as she fancies him...

The main difference between the two is that she does it for a living and earns money, he does it for pleasure and spends money.

Sarah x x x

[Trinity-Belle]

I have a friend who married escort girl 15 years ago

if he was not a punter it does not fall under the same situation.

Exactly.... was he a client of hers, or is he just some bloke who happened to end up going out with, and eventually marrying, a girl who used to be an escort?

[Archer33]

But ofcourse she stop with escorting 15 years ago...

That would help the situation, but did he stop being a punter if that is how he met her? if he was not a punter it does not fall under the same situation.

If a girl fall for a punter there are many dilemmas, but here are the main two that will rock the boat.

1. Is he happy for her to carry on working? Will he not worry that as she was the type of girl to start a relationship with a client that it will not happen again.

2. Is she happy for him to carry on visiting other girls and maybe go off with them? After all, he must be irresistible as she fancies him...

The main difference between the two is that she does it for a living and earns money, he does it for pleasure and spends money.

Sarah x x x

The Girl was working in the Brothel and if i remember good she was very good looking,and we were working as Military Contractors in that Town/Country
And what the hell is a "Punter" ? Guy who is addicted to sex with different girls? Or the guy who pay for Sex ?
And why are you assuming that he must be irresistible for the escort girl to fall in love with him lol Do you girls have some high standards ?
You should understand that not all guys pay for sex just for sex or because they cant find a girl in Pub,Some of us pay for Sex because there are certain things which we cant do with our wifes or girlfriends...
And for the girl they are many different things what you can do to earn money so there is no need to stay doing escorting job,and for the bloke you have a dream girl in your bedroom what else do you need lol
But if the guy is addicted to sex with diffrent girls than he will not be able to have relationship with ANY girl.
And it is the same for the girl if she cant give up lifestyle of Escort girl than it is pointless.
We all have feelings and anything is possible....

[Trinity-Belle]

And what the hell is a "Punter" ?

"Punter" is a guy who pays for sex.

So what we are asking is, did he pay to have sex with her before they became a couple?

Because that is what this thread is about.

And I think W4R's comment about him being very good looking... I think she just meant that us girls see a lot of guys, and many of them are attractive, so it might be reasonable to presume that someone would have to stand out from the crowd for the WG to be interested?