Becoming a "regular" can be surprisingly difficult!

[Simon]

...Hmmm. If the message hasn't been read yet, then that's plausible. But AW lets us see if (and when) our messages get read, and if they have been deleted. The male ego is a fragile and delicate thing! If a client sees that his message has been read (or worse, deleted) without a reply, he will assume that he's been "dumped" and will move on... never to return.

And many of the men who end up paying for sex have had problems with "normal" relationships (for various reasons) and may already be suffering from low self-esteem. They are expecting rejection.

So if any escort reading this has been wondering why a promising client didn't come back... did you fail to reply to his email? You don't have to say much, just give the poor sap some reason to hope that you might actually like to see him again someday!

[spklors]

I tend to work to a time scale, and if the escort does not respond within 48 hours, then I assume that she is not intrested so I move on.

If after that time the escort does respond with a reasonable answer about the time delay, then i will accept that, but its best just too assume that those who dont reply are not intrested, or merely time wasters.

If using Adultwork to correspond to someone, it does show if the post is read and when.

[Freddo]

i come from the sunny south and I can say in all honesty that only one in three e mails ever get answered or read so do not be to dissheartened

[knight5648]

If you find a good one stay with her but always be on the lookout for a replacement as escorts have a habit of dissappearing.

I try to have one really good lady who I look forward to visiting her as often as poss but I always carry on my research I tend to visit a wg once every two to three weeks depending on funds

Good advice from Freddo........

[Jeansman]

As ever - Trinity gets it bang on right. From my own experience, seeing a regular lady does make it more enjoyable and the lady treats you as her regular. Good regulars are hard to find, so they will work hard to keep you. I see some great ladies off AW more than once and we both appreciate return visits!
JM

Don't get hung up on it.

Most guys seem to just see girls once a month or what ever they can afford... they see a girl, and if they like her they will see her again next month, and the month after and the month after that... until they get bored or another girl catches their eye.

Half hour is too short to be good... it's just "getting off", in my view, which is why I don't offer it. It is also uneconomical if you are on a budget... two half hours will, with most girls, cost you more than a single one hour session.

There is nothing wrong with seeing a girl once every 3 months... I have guys who I regard as "regs" who I see much less often than that - I even have a couple of guys who I see once a year!

I think, if you want the truth, that you are trying to over complicate it.

The second time you see a girl she will start to see you as "not just another trick" and the third time she will start to think of you as one of "her" guys...

Just relax and enjoy... mix it up a bit if you like, and go and see a girl a second time if you enjoyed.

Remember... the whole purpose of sex for money is that it is casual... you don't have to commit to any girl!

None of us will be heart broken if you don't come back.

Treat it as a treasure hunt x

[Freddo]

I was a regular with a lady for a while I think I had visited her a fair few times. But the last four visits she started to shorten the time the first two were okay it was not until the third that I started to think there is something a bit strange going on here so on my last visit I thought I would take a bit more notice of what was going on so I wore a watch and there it was from about 30minutes in she was trying to get me to come so I oblidged after about fourty mins and she was kicking me out the door after 45 mins
If you become too regular then you might become the norm and no longer get the sort of service that made you return in the first place. Just beaware that things change and look out for them
remember Familiararity breeds contempt