Advice for coping with a relationship with an escort?

[Jakey]

Jake you seem to be getting upset with everyone here because of what an entirely other set of people said on an entirely different forum.

Overall the responses you have received on this forum have been helpful and sympathetic towards your position.

I understand the difficulty you have dealing with the safety issues, and if this even made your gf debate wether to keep on in this work then maybe it would be good for her to look into other options.

She could webcam part time and then keep seeing her current regular escorting clients. If she wanted to still advertise for new clients then she could introduce the booking request form with the confirming etc as a way to book. I find this weeds out the time wasters and the not so nice people.

As I said before though, it is her decision.

Chin up luv! Remember that the people that reply to you on forums online are people that you have and will never meet, they have no real impact on your life. Unless of course you allow them to.

You're right. I did look over and see that in general people are supportive and willing to give good advice, I think its just because there are a few who I can sense real negativity from, and I know there is a member or 2 on here who were involved in the other thread and were making what I see at snide remarks and treating me with bias and like I'm a pest, so it was aimed at them really.

Thankyou for your encouragement, in terms of your advice, yes, we have considered camming and she likes the idea but doesnt know if its practical, but going part time could be worth it as an endeavour. 
The thing is, its not just me wanting the change, it may seem to some like im pressuring her out of a job she loves, but the truth is she does it because its convenient and because its all she knows. But in reality, she knows and feels that its not a healthy activity to do in a commited relationship, and has often told me this. If I knew she loved it and had no plan to ever stop, then I would leave her, as it doesnt align with what I seek in a relationship. But ahe plans on getting out at some point and is making steps for it in the not too distanr future.