premature ejaculation

[English Kate]

I had a guy who came every time I touched his willy. ... I had no idea how to address it!

Oh, god, honey! That's so hot! I love it when you cum! Let me lick it up! Now let's see if we can make it cum again!

Men are not that complicated. If he seriously can't keep it up long enough to get a condom on, then he'll probably be happy just cumming, as long as you don't act all disappointed.

And before you ask "but how could anyone not be disappointed?" remember that there are all kinds of people in this world, and some girls would love it that they drove guys wild so easily. Those girls might be rare, but if you make a show of fingering yourself because "Gosh! I love it that you're so hot for me" you may be able to turn it around.

I honestly don't know that I could do this with a straight face, but in theory that's how I think you should do it.

Welcome to the forum strolls x

I like your thinking. It's almost like the theory with children, ie ignore what they are doing wrong and praise what they are doing right and hopefully they improve their general behaviour or performance in this case.

As an Escort it does not bother me at all. I get enough good sex to know that if I'm craving a good rodgering, it's just around the corner, so I'm able to put myself and my needs second in these cases and attempt to make it the best I can for them. I get a lot of guys that don't even want to try for penetration, but I guess they know their bodies and limits best and if oral is what they crave, then that is what they get.

Also I don't know why, but my blow jobs do seem to hit the spot, so I usually reassure my clients not to feel they can't tell me to stop if they feel they are going to cum sooner than they want to, as I am happy change pace or be given oral instead. This seems to put them at ease and they do usually take advantage of the offer to communicate.