20-01-2013, 23:30
Hello
Took a break from camming altogether and first day back on the forum and I see this. Here we go...
I'm pretty damn flat chested, I attract the ageplay crowd and that's how I make my living. I admit, sometimes I think to myself what the fuck am I doing with my life (the exact reason I took a two week break). I personally find a vast majority of these guys harmless, they have some taboo fantasies... what can they do?! A lot of ladies have rape and control fantasies, doesn't mean they go out looking to get raped. The human mind is fascinating, when you add sex & taboo into the mix... I almost went into psychology for this reason.
The problem is, in my opinion, that it IS a taboo. It's a dark seedy forbidden thing, it shouldn't be talked about and that's what attracts most of these guys. They like to think they're pushing the boundaries, they enjoy knowing they're into something that they SHOULDN'T.
If they're talking to me, they know I'm not whatever age they want, they know it's a fantasy and that it's a "safe place" to discuss whatever they like. Usually the number is what they get off on, and the number (age) relates to how far they think they're pushing things. It's not because they have a thing for children/teens aged xxx it's because in their mind that's a fucked up as they feel they can go.
I get A LOT of guys trying to shock me, and when I don't even bat an eyelid they move on to the next girl to try and shock them.
Personally, as I've said before I get off on acting innocent and playing the taboo roles, and it was hard to come to terms with this. My current boyfriend isn't into any roleplay scenarios, I accept that, I do all my playing on cam with like-minded people instead. In that sense I sympathize, these guys can't even tell their partners/wives what really gets them going because they're afraid to be branded a sick twisted pervert. Some of these guys have children, and they feel guilty that they come view camgirls etc, but the guilt feeds into the fantasy even more. In previous relationships I have done taboo roleplay in the bedroom, not for one second did I think that my boyfriend would have seduced his sister (if he had one) or gone out and bribed schoolgirls into doing sexual acts. I like edge play, doesn't mean I'd get off on some psycho holding me hostage and threatening me with knives and guns, choking me, or raping me.
If I'm providing an outlet for these guys, so be it. I know it's not a popular frame of mind, if I ever explained this to anyone in real life I wouldn't expect to be accepted for what I do. If they're at home, in front of their PC talking to someone who is clearly of legal age of consent then I call that fair game. I don't think I'd ever become such an obsession that they want to try "the real thing". You have to give these guys some credit, they're not idiots, they know we're 18+, if they wanted the real deal then it's only a few clicks away.
I logged on tonight and the first thing I got asked was "Do you do ageplay?" all the guy wanted was to look at my ass whilst I was dressed as a schoolgirl. Most kids see more risque shit on MTV for fucks sake!
I have a daughter, I do worry (as any parent would) about her safety in this regard, but I don't think banning talking about taboo subjects would save her from abuse if heaven forbid anybody ever tried. What would work? Supervision, education, and openness. I won't lie to her, I won't tell her the world is all sunshine and rainbows. She's never unsupervised, and I wouldn't ever leave her alone with anyone I don't trust wholeheartedly. Just the other day on the playground at school I heard a mother say...
"Oh well my new bloke, he's real good with the kids, always wanting to spend time with them. He offered to babysit whenever so I'm going out on Friday"
THAT is the terrifying shit. A young mother in my extended family recently caught her "good with kids" boyfriend assaulting her 4 year old. I'm not saying all guys who like kids are perverts, but why the hell would you let your "new bloke" look after your children?!?! The guys who WANT to abuse children WILL find a way. Adultwork isn't the place to be looking, the clue is in the bloody name! ADULTwork.
Took a break from camming altogether and first day back on the forum and I see this. Here we go...
I'm pretty damn flat chested, I attract the ageplay crowd and that's how I make my living. I admit, sometimes I think to myself what the fuck am I doing with my life (the exact reason I took a two week break). I personally find a vast majority of these guys harmless, they have some taboo fantasies... what can they do?! A lot of ladies have rape and control fantasies, doesn't mean they go out looking to get raped. The human mind is fascinating, when you add sex & taboo into the mix... I almost went into psychology for this reason.
The problem is, in my opinion, that it IS a taboo. It's a dark seedy forbidden thing, it shouldn't be talked about and that's what attracts most of these guys. They like to think they're pushing the boundaries, they enjoy knowing they're into something that they SHOULDN'T.
If they're talking to me, they know I'm not whatever age they want, they know it's a fantasy and that it's a "safe place" to discuss whatever they like. Usually the number is what they get off on, and the number (age) relates to how far they think they're pushing things. It's not because they have a thing for children/teens aged xxx it's because in their mind that's a fucked up as they feel they can go.
I get A LOT of guys trying to shock me, and when I don't even bat an eyelid they move on to the next girl to try and shock them.
Personally, as I've said before I get off on acting innocent and playing the taboo roles, and it was hard to come to terms with this. My current boyfriend isn't into any roleplay scenarios, I accept that, I do all my playing on cam with like-minded people instead. In that sense I sympathize, these guys can't even tell their partners/wives what really gets them going because they're afraid to be branded a sick twisted pervert. Some of these guys have children, and they feel guilty that they come view camgirls etc, but the guilt feeds into the fantasy even more. In previous relationships I have done taboo roleplay in the bedroom, not for one second did I think that my boyfriend would have seduced his sister (if he had one) or gone out and bribed schoolgirls into doing sexual acts. I like edge play, doesn't mean I'd get off on some psycho holding me hostage and threatening me with knives and guns, choking me, or raping me.
If I'm providing an outlet for these guys, so be it. I know it's not a popular frame of mind, if I ever explained this to anyone in real life I wouldn't expect to be accepted for what I do. If they're at home, in front of their PC talking to someone who is clearly of legal age of consent then I call that fair game. I don't think I'd ever become such an obsession that they want to try "the real thing". You have to give these guys some credit, they're not idiots, they know we're 18+, if they wanted the real deal then it's only a few clicks away.
I logged on tonight and the first thing I got asked was "Do you do ageplay?" all the guy wanted was to look at my ass whilst I was dressed as a schoolgirl. Most kids see more risque shit on MTV for fucks sake!
I have a daughter, I do worry (as any parent would) about her safety in this regard, but I don't think banning talking about taboo subjects would save her from abuse if heaven forbid anybody ever tried. What would work? Supervision, education, and openness. I won't lie to her, I won't tell her the world is all sunshine and rainbows. She's never unsupervised, and I wouldn't ever leave her alone with anyone I don't trust wholeheartedly. Just the other day on the playground at school I heard a mother say...
"Oh well my new bloke, he's real good with the kids, always wanting to spend time with them. He offered to babysit whenever so I'm going out on Friday"
THAT is the terrifying shit. A young mother in my extended family recently caught her "good with kids" boyfriend assaulting her 4 year old. I'm not saying all guys who like kids are perverts, but why the hell would you let your "new bloke" look after your children?!?! The guys who WANT to abuse children WILL find a way. Adultwork isn't the place to be looking, the clue is in the bloody name! ADULTwork.
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