Best way of sorting out what one wants before money is exchanged

[markdee]

Hmmmm "Firstly without sounding like a tube how do you " choose girls more carefully" Just by that statement alone i see you have a more than fitting user name.
The two ladies above have pretty much explained the situation.The people involved also tend to be at a far lower price than most,especially for services supposedly offered.I think it goes back to the old saying,"If it seems too good to be true it probably is".