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[1hornylass]

When I say I'm opened minded there's a few things I definately don't want to do and that's everything you have all just mentioned. I know at the start I'm likely to get the ones like that but if they open with something like that I will end the chat, if they ask would I chat about things like that I would politely say no and ask if there's anything else they want to chat about. I don't want to scare everyone off and some people may happily talk about something else.

I'm also going to check out the links you've provided, many thanks for your help