Swinging

[Jeansman]

Thank-you Lolo - I speak from experience and a vast reservoir of cynicism,......

You are not missing out on anything special Mr.Smith..................

u are def spot on there JM

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Dead horse and flogging - certainly one expression that sums up my experience of Swinging. I have joined Swingers sites in the past, had e-mails expressing "interest" and a lot of farting and dancing around, but the bottom line was sweet f/a. Seems to be a great deal of effort for little or no reward whatsoever. It also appears that the whole scene is crammed with "single" guys chasing a few "available" ladies and alleged couples - I've seen more sex,lewdness and rudeness on Blue Peter.
The whole scene seems false to me and the only people getting anything out of it are the Website owners who bombard guys with "messages" from alleged females who would love to meet up in chatrooms, which are populated by 75 years old Ukrainian grannies, promising to insert all manner of things up themselves, including a spatchelor(true - one woman actually said to me she could do this).

All a bit much just after my tea and wheatybangs at 08.30 hours!
JM.