specifying who contacts you (age etc.)

[Trinity-Belle]

Personally I would rather do that kind of filtering on the phone. I have "rules" about who I will and will not see, but I do sometimes break them if the guy sounds nice on the phone.

For instance, I don't really like to see younger guys and I wouldn't normally see anyone who is much under 30... but it's not a hard and fast rule. I've had some lovely visits from guys in their early twenties which I might have missed out on if they were being pre-screened?