What am I doing wrong?

[Madame X]

So - I am new(ish) to webcamming and once I'm in full swing, have some really good days..
Most days are not like this though - Is it normal to have people entering & leaving the room in milliseconds? Like all day?
Or use brb, someone at door, as an excuse to do one?!
I initially used the name Mistress Minger to avoid dissapointing people - But had a few nice people that pleaded with with me not to call myself that as I was actually alright!
Is it just that I'm not the majority of visitors cup of tea, unfortunately for me?
Or should I be sat here with my fanny hanging out from the off???!!! 
I'm all tarted up, always wear revealing clothes or sexy skimpy outfits - but nobody wants to stay and play! (and yes I do play)
You can almost here the 'urgh, disgusting' in the seconds I'm saying hi...very soul destroying -
You can see my face on my profile, you know I'm old too, so why bother in the first place to disappear straight away - hardly a shock am I?
So any advice from fellow webcammers or playtime people is most welcome - would love to know what goes through your mind when wanting to chat and what you must be expecting..and why you are gone so fast - nobody cums that quick surely..?!